Be a Mensch to Yourself
Before you can find a mensch, you will need to put your best foot forward. This means practicing self-care and living fully. When you're doing those very things, your mensch is more likely to appear. Life can be wonderful, so don't put yours on hold until you've found your mensch. Live in the moment and enjoy where you are today by surrounding yourself with good friends, working on cultivating new ones, taking a class, getting a massage, going on a trip, reading a new book, or signing up for sailing lessons. Whatever calls to you, pursue it. You'll be happier at the end of the day, and that will bring people into your orbit.