For centuries, the Christian culture surrounding sex has been something kept very hush-hush. No one feels comfortable speaking about sex in a Christian context, which leads many people to be very confused about what the Bible actually says about it. Christians are making choices for themselves based on misconceptions and out of confusion instead of asking trusted Christian leaders or friends.
Not being educated about what healthy sexuality looks like hurts Christians more than helps them. God wants us to know about sex and the intricate design He has for it. He wants us to explore our desires in a healthy and safe way. When we choose to ignore that fact, Christians everywhere become confused on what is actually the truth. The current culture raises us to develop a very negative identity when it comes to sexuality.
Christians need to get over their discomfort and talk about sex. If we don’t, then these lies will continue to spread. Here are some of the lies you may believe, and why they really aren’t true.