Why are we astonished when a celebrity cheats on his wife? Women who we regard as "perfect looking" or having a flawless life get cheated on and we remain baffled! Look at the cases of professional golfer Tiger Woods cheating on Elin Nordegren and actor Ben Affleck cheating on actress Jennifer Garner! What really gives here? These gals seemingly have it all. They have looks money and a family. But infidelity has little to do with appearance, wealth, education or social status, writer Stacey Freeman explained. Cheating is not based on appearances, capital or social class, it is a character defect. "When your spouse cheats it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him or her. Cheating is a unilateral decision, a choice your spouse made without you," she wrote. Some couples press on and make it work, while others go to divorce court. Being in the spotlight is added pressure on a marriage when an affair is uncovered, but many celebrities hang in there and let things slide. Here are 5 celebrities who survived infidelity and moved on.