When it comes to dealing with others who have failed to meet our expectations, let us never forget the following: their choices in the past that may have caused us pain ought never blindly determine how we treat them in the present. After all, if the Divine decided to judge us “once and for all’ — for even a small portion of our poorly made, self-centered decisions — surely It would have given up on us a long time ago.

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