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Lessons from a Recovering Doormat

This is post 176 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power tomanifest all your desires. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series to see how.

It’s hard to manifest what you want if you’re more concerned with pleasing others than with pleasing yourself. That in itself tells the Universe you don’t deserve to own the power you could have. As a DoorMat for many years, I know how bad my vibration was back then. But I didn’t recognize how I was attracting a disempowered life by letting others control me in the name of wanting to be liked by everyone. “No” wasn’t part of my vocabulary.

I did wonder why life didn’t go my way but kept up my people pleasing ways. For a long time I believed that people who went after what they wanted weren’t nice, and I wanted to be nice! It finally hit me that I could be nice but firm about making sure my needs were met. When I began to stand up for me, I noticed that I felt good, so good that I kept going. I was still a nice person but I spoke up and went after my desires. That created a positive vibration that began to attract what I wanted.

Empowering yourself tells the Universe you value your needs and deserve good stuff. The better you feel, the better your manifesting. I’ve posted videos with EFT expert Brad Yates before because I love following along and Tapping with him. In the one below, he uses honey bears as an analogy. While we shouldn’t emulate how honey bears can be aggressive and selfish about taking from others, we can learn from them to feel entitled to get your share of life.

When you hurt or unfairly take from people it comes back to you in ways you don’t like. But Brad says we can still learn from and emulate parts of honey bear behavior. They know how to go fro what they want. The Tapping video below addresses empowering yourself using the good aspects of a honey bee. Tapping helps clear the resistance that blocks manifesting and raises your vibration so you can attract a lot more good stuff. Try tapping along with this video and empower yourself to manifest more!

 

See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series HERE.
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