It’s Tuesday afternoon. The deadline is Friday. The project sits open on your laptop, cursor blinking, waiting. You tell yourself you’ll just go to the gym first—clear your head, boost your focus. After that, you check a few emails, then reward yourself with a quick break that turns into an hour-long scroll. By evening, the…

Most of my work has been talking to people who are unhappy, clinically depressed, highly anxious and traumatized. But out of that work, we can discover patterns that lead to feeling down or unhappy. Hear me though, I am not saying that people are not impacted by their genetics, life experiences and other major contributors…

Clutter, that stuff strewn everywhere that can make us anxious and stressed. It clogs up our lives and can lead to relationship fights and even unsafe conditions in our homes. Additionally, clutter can affect our focus and trigger avoidance as a coping mechanism because we feel overwhelmed. With all the problems clutter creates, why do…

Would you mind helping with the dishes?  I will in a minute. I am doing them now, can you please come help now?  I will get to it later, don’t worry!  Procrastination can be frustrating to those who like to get things done. Maybe this is your struggle. You know this is a problem, but…

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