In time of crisis, or even in time of discomfort, know that you always have choices. You may not realize that you have options; you may not see the whole picture.
Take time to see the situation in a different light. Nothing is ever all or nothing. There’s no situation that’s merely black-and-white. We’re in a Creation that’s infinitely variable. There’s always another way.
Take your time, get creative, relax and analyze your possibilities. Share your feelings and needs with another person: a friend, counselor, or spiritual guide. Then pray for God to show you the way.