Who do you turn when solving life problems is your goal? You may be looking for help in the wrong direction. Turn inward when solving problems and you'll always have all you need to be happy.
Proverbs 32:17 explains that when you have a right-focused mindset, you become more confident and experience an inner peace. You can bear the burden of anything that comes your way. Engage the help of the Lord through prayer and righteous living. Trust yourself.
The fruit of righteousness will be peace; the effect of righteousness will be quietness and confidence forever.