Once you have identified the root of your relationship challenge, it is time to turn inward. We've all heard the expression, "No one can make you feel anything, you choose how you feel". This too is true in our relationships. If you feel insecure, ask yourself why? What is it about yourself that makes you feel this way? This could go as far back as an incident that occurred when you were child. Perhaps this relationship is triggering something much deeper within you that has nothing really to do with that specific person!