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Your deceased loved ones really are okay and want you to know that! They may be coming to you in a variety of ways to you to let you know they are there. Your only requirement is that you acknowledge the wonderful signs they are giving you.

One of the easiest ways for them to come through is in the dream-state. However, if you don’t wake up after the dream, you will not remember it. So before you go to sleep, ask your loved ones to enter your dreams and be sure to tell them to wake you up afterwards. Be persistent, and even if you don’t dream of them right away, continue to invite them to come into your dreams on several consecutive nights. Remember, they will come when the time is right.

Also, make sure to look for signs around you, such as the bumper stickers or license plates of cars that cut you off, songs on the radio with messages that seem to be just for you, objects that fly off shelves, specific fragrances that come out of nowhere, significant numbers you see over and over again, electrical appliances going on and off, pennies or other coins that always seem to be in your path, feathers that appear in the most unpredictable places, and so forth.

You may be dismissing signs and messages either because you are not paying attention or you may think the messages are just your thoughts. Most of the messages I receive come through simply as thoughts that just “pop” into my head. The most common way your loved ones communicate with you is telepathically, that is, sending their thoughts to you!

But how do you separate your thoughts from theirs? Simply trace your thoughts and see if you can figure out how it originated. If you can’t pinpoint it, and the thought just “popped” into your head for no apparent reason, it may very well be your loved one trying to talk to you. When this happens, make sure to quiet yourself. Then, ask the person who it is and listen. You may receive more thoughts, words, pictures, smells or even feelings. (This is where the benefit of meditation comes in. If you have been meditating, you will be able to quiet yourself easily and fully experience what is being given to you.)

Your loved ones often decide to give you messages when you least expect them, so make sure to be aware of what is going on around you at all times. When they are finally able to communicate with you, they will be so happy to have finally made that connection too, and you will most likely experience a wonderful, peaceful feeling when they are able to make their presence known!

These were just some of the most commonways your deceased loved ones may be letting you know they are around you, but the list can go on and on. If you haven’t received any of these signs, simply ask your loved ones to give you “without a doubt signs” to let you know they are there. The more you are aware of the signs they are giving you, the more they will continue to come to you. Just be patient, and I promise that they will give you the signs you’ve always wanted.

Many blessings to you!

Karen Noé is a renowned NJ based psychic medium, spiritual counselor, and healer with a two-year waiting list. She is the author of The Rainbow Follows the Storm: How to Obtain Inner Peace by Connecting with Angels and Deceased Loved Ones and Through the Eyes of Another: A Medium’s Guide to Creating Heaven on Earth by Encountering Your Life Review Now. She is the founder of the Angel Quest Center in Ramsey, NJ where she teaches classes, gives readings, and practices alternative healing. You can listen to Karen on The Angel Quest Radio Show by tuning to on the first Saturday of every month at 1:05pm EST. Please visit Karen’s website at

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