After weeks of not checking, I ran through my spam file and found a real email from someone. Again, if you’ve not heard from me, and it’s been over a couple of days since you wrote, re-send. Be specific in the subject line, so I catch it – this guy put "Da Vinci Code" – so I knew it was probably not spam. Although maybe that’s not a sure thing. In other words, don’t just put "greetings" or even worse, no subject. Then it will be lost forever, for sure.