It is not only fine feathers that make fine birds. ~Aesop
Our body image (a.k.a. body esteem) is the picture we have of our physical body. It is an inner
view of our outer self. It is formed by our awareness, imagination and emotions. It is evershifting.
Our body esteem not only depends upon our size pants, what the number registers on the ‘scales of injustice;’ it can also shift depending on our mood, the environment, the who, what and where of the day.
In other words, how we feel about ourselves and our bodies is psychological in nature.
Our body image is NOT based on fact. It is learned.
Body image primarily comes to us from the dictates of culture. Our images of beauty have been manipulated by advertisers and the media. And then, in turn, from our family and peers.
Take a look at this Dove Evolution video! It says it all. The standards that we judge ourselves by are just not real, in any way, shape or form.
Body-esteem is linked to self-esteem. Studies show that body image makes up about 25 percent of our self-esteem. If we are happy with our bodies, we are likely to move through the day with confidence and grace. If we are unhappy, our body language reflects this state.
Studies also show that women who have a social support system in place, one that emphasizes the positive, develop healthier coping strategies and excel at problem-solving.
Now that we know that our body-esteem is totally subjective, not based on fact, and we are in this together (our own social support system), let’s create an expansive view of ourselves; one that gives us permission to feel positively about many facets of our lives, including our bodies.
How does this a part of your Thanksgiving Survival guide?
The better we feel about our bodies/our selves, the more likely we are to take care of ourselves, exercise good judgement, make wise choices and stay in control.
Spread the Love Thyself word – NOT the icing!