Letting Go with Guy Finley

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Outgrowing the Bitterness of Feeling Betrayed

posted by Guy Finley

At least twice a month I receive an email or letter telling me how much anger and hatred the person is feeling towards someone who betrayed them in some way…and asking how on earth can it be possible to live […]

Turn the Pain of Loss Into Spiritual Gain

posted by Guy Finley

QUESTION If there’s really a way to take the torment out of personal loss, I want to know about it. But the whole idea of not feeling loss also frightens me in a way that’s hard to describe. I mean, […]

Start Giving Yourself What You Really Want

posted by Guy Finley

It’s a little known secret that our experience of life in any given moment is a direct reflection of what we actually value in that same moment. We may deny this unsettling truth but, when it comes to what we […]

What Can I Learn About Myself From You?

posted by Guy Finley

Compassion starts with the understanding that every human being on the planet looks different from us — because physically we are different — but inwardly we all live in the same pool. We all have pain and pleasure, we all […]

Previous Posts

Love in Action
Real love wants nothing outside of itself…

posted 3:00:23am Nov. 21, 2014 | read full post »

(Video) Real Love Does Not Enable
Guy Finley explains what real love is and what it isn't, and notes that it is impossible for you to genuinely love another person if you cannot first be completely content and comfortable with being alone. [youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fxuv3Yicgh0&list=UUTGc_OGLcE1zQ1HpyyNKrKA[/yout

posted 3:00:06am Nov. 20, 2014 | read full post »

Stop Enabling and Take Possession of Your Self
The person who enables another human being believes the only choice they have is to somehow keep that person in line, save that person from themselves -- not for the good of the other human being but because the enabler, without knowing it, believes that without the other person in their life, they

posted 3:00:15am Nov. 19, 2014 | read full post »

Drop the Weight of False Responsibilities
A lot of what goes wrong on this planet is born of people who feel the weight of false responsibilities. Enabling another human being is a form of a false responsibility. Anyone who lives with someone who abuses them enables the abusive behavior. If you live with someone who is cruel or physicall

posted 3:00:12am Nov. 18, 2014 | read full post »

Break the Bad Habit of Bargaining for Love
We never enable someone else without having first disabled our own Higher Nature that knows better than to bargain for friendship, love -- or to just feel "needed" in some way...

posted 3:00:14am Nov. 17, 2014 | read full post »


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