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Letting Go with Guy Finley
How to End the Cycle of Hurting and Being Hurt (Conclusion)
By
Guy Finley
Each time we will consciously refuse to strike back in anger or act out some aggression toward the one who hurts us, we sow the seed of a new order of a conscious life. Now instead of being used by dark forces that grow at the expense of our soul’s development, it is we who…
How to End the Cycle of Hurting and Being Hurt (Part 3)
By
Guy Finley
Most of us already suspect what needs to be done if we are to have any hope of moving beyond the conflict so common in our relationships. Nevertheless, here is a brief description of the spiritual action to be taken: We must stop giving to everyone else the pain we cannot bear to carry ourselves.…
How to End the Cycle of Hurting and Being Hurt (Part 2)
By
Guy Finley
It doesn’t matter how, or where, this dark cycle of conflict got started. It is not important any longer. Why? Because once we understand that to try to hurt someone — even just to want to — is to hurt ourselves, it makes no difference who did what to whom, or for whatever reasons. Once…
How to End the Cycle of Hurting and Being Hurt (Part 1)
By
Guy Finley
When someone acts thoughtlessly towards us, it is a similar thoughtlessness in us that responds. In other words, our own hostile reactions take no thought for anything outside of what they call into account for their suddenly heated existence — so that the only awareness we possess in these times is that low level of…
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