Lessons from a Recovering Doormat

Lessons from a Recovering Doormat


Law of Attraction in Action: Huge Goals

LOAlogoBLOGThis is post 257 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires.. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series to see how.

It’s human nature to set small goals instead of big ones. When I ask clients to set one, it’s usually just step above where they are now. Then I ask what they REALLY want. That often triggers negative emotions—guilt, feeling low self-value, doubt, etc. and beliefs about why a big goal is impossible:

•    “I shouldn’t be greedy and ask for so much more.”
•    “How on earth would I be able to manifest so much?”
•    “Shouldn’t I just try to manifest in small increments?”
•    “I’m scared I won’t be able to handle it.”

Often these beliefs come from things you’ve heard in the past or not valuing yourself, your talents or your abilities. If you hold onto them, you won’t be able to create a good vibration for setting a big goal. It’s important to clear these old limitations if you want to successfully manifest a huge goal, otherwise if you try to set a one, you’ll bring up many negative emotions that will sabotage it.

When I decided to start The Self-Love Movement™  I wanted to do it on a large scale, because helping people build self-love means a lot to me. But I thought that would be too much to go for in the beginning. So I got someone to make me a cheap website and announced what I called my Self-Love Initiative. I wasn’t comfortable with doing it that way since my website didn’t reflect my bigger goal. My heart wasn’t in it and my vibration reflected that. So I stayed small for a while.

As I wrote my new book that I’ve been talking about, Tapping into Wealth: How Emotional Freedom Technique (EFT) Can Help You Clear the Path to Making More Money,  with the fabulous Margaret M. Lynch,  the leading expert for finding and clearing block to getting more money, I recognized my resistance to setting a large goal. I was scared to spend the money to invest in my big dream.  I did Tapping to clear my resistance. Shortly after, I hired a good web designer to build me a new site that I love and launched The Self-Love Movement™. Instead of small numbers, over 10,400 people have downloaded a free copy of my 13th book, How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways.

When you use the Law of Attraction, it‘s not harder to achieve a huge goal than a small one. You just have to apply the same principles to a bigger goal—clear your blocks and create a strong vibration by getting excited about it so you can generate a very positive vibration about it and a positive intention. Using EFT can clear the blocks that create resistance to getting what you want as I discussed in  my post, Law of Attraction in Action: Use EFT (Tapping) to Clear Resistance. KNOW that the right people and resources will come to you at the right time. Then you can pursue your huge goals!

See all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series HERE.
***************

Join The Self-Love Movement! Take the 31 Days of Self-Love Commitment and get my book, How Do I Love Me? Let Me Count the Ways for free at http://howdoiloveme.com. Read my 2013 31 Days of Self-Love Posts HERE. Join the Self-Love Movement™! on Facebook.

Please leave comments under my posts so we can stay connected.



Previous Posts

Ditch the Victim Mentality
A common thread among clients who come to me for self-empowerment counseling is “Why do people use me?” And they groan, “Why me?” And they whine, “I’ll never get what I want because of _____.”  I tell them to fill in that blank with, “because I allow myself to be a victim.” People

posted 10:41:37pm Jul. 21, 2014 | read full post »

Standing Up for Yourself
You may be angry at many people and want to tell them all of. But you need to –prepare to take a stand first. Before taking a stand, ask, “Am I WILLING to be serious?” You may want to stop unacceptable behavior, but are you willing to leave or mean “no” or cut visits if ignored? Decide how

posted 12:01:04pm Jul. 18, 2014 | read full post »

Law of Attraction in Action: What You Think Of Yourself
This is post 290 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to manifest your desires. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series to see how. Very often, your biggest roadblocks to achieving goals are the labels you put on yourself.

posted 8:44:56pm Jul. 16, 2014 | read full post »

Why People Become DoorMats/People Pleasers
George Bernard Shaw said, “The reasonable man adapts himself to the world: the unreasonable one persists in trying to adapt the world to himself.” Having DMS (DoorMat Syndrome) made me a People Pleaser wh

posted 2:09:35pm Jul. 14, 2014 | read full post »

Law of Attraction in Action: “It’s for the best”
This is post 289 in my series on the Law of Attraction in Action. You CAN use your power to attract all that you need. I do it every day! Read all the posts in my Law of Attraction in Action Series  to see how. People get confused when they’re trying to manifest if something doesn’t work out

posted 12:01:14pm Jul. 08, 2014 | read full post »




Report as Inappropriate

You are reporting this content because it violates the Terms of Service.

All reported content is logged for investigation.