Lessons from a Recovering Doormat

Lessons from a Recovering Doormat


Make Today YOUR Independence Day!

fireworksFor those of you in the US, yesterday we celebrated independence for our country. But how about declaring your own independence? On Tuesday I wrote about Independence for my Law of Attraction in Action series and how it helps you get what you want. But on tail of this day of celebrating independence, declare your own from the old things that hold you back from being happy:

•    Old messages that said you couldn’t do things
•    Criticism
•    Anger
•    Needing to be a people pleaser
•    Relying on someone else to make you happy
•    People who bring you down
•    Doing things you hate
•    Etc.

If you can start today to declare your personal independence form things that aren’t good for you, you can celebrate it every year on July Fourth.
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  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment Manvi

    Beautiful, thats exactly how we cans set ourselves free.
    After reading I realised I was already applying it since 1-2 months. Felt beautiful about myself.
    Thank you !! :)

  • Daylle Deanna Schwartz

    Thanks Manvi!

  • http://AddaURLtothiscomment susan ingle

    I like this topic on make your independence day.

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