Every day you deal with major and minor issues, concerns and situations. You are challenged every moment to give your best. Each moment you have a choice of what you are going to do or say and how you are going to do or say it.
Either you use your energy and resources to inspire, encourage, uplift and heal or you attack, take and destroy. There is no in between. You are either helping or hurting. Your words, energy and actions speak volumes. So, before you say or do something you will regret – take a moment to be present and make sure it is appropriate and what you truly want to do. Once you say or do something you cannot take it back.
The key principles of life demonstrate their greatest value when you are faced with major challenges. It is in these moments your courage, determination and commitment are tested to follow these principles properly.
In our new world of instant communication and emails, it is amazing how many people use emails and texts for important relationship issues. Email and texts are great for simple things, but they do not convey tone, body language, eye contact and other features that are much more powerful to create quality communication and rapport. When something important needs to be communicated, pick up the phone or to go meet with that person face to face. You both deserve it.
Under pressure the tendency is to attack, control and dominate or to shut down, run and hide – these are actually fear based behaviors. It requires awareness, clarity and balance to come from a place of fairness. appropriateness and compassion. There is enough for everyone and every situation can be discussed and resolved nicely. It is a conscious choice.
“The quality of my life is directly related to the quality of my communication, with myself first and then with others.”
Wishing you the divine plan of your life, under grace and in perfect ways.
The MEGA Coach