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“Sometimes, it’s as simple as praying with them…”

From Afghanistan comes this remarkable story of a Catholic soldier who has become the lay spiritual leader for many in his battalion:

20100104cnsnw00523_web.jpgLike all Marines, Cpl. Matthew Munoz is there for his buddies, but the 23-year-old also has stepped forward to help tend to the spiritual well-being of his comrades in arms.


Cpl. Munoz is second in command for his squad of about 14 men; he is assistant patrol leader with the Marines’ 1st Battalion, 3rd Marines, Alpha Company, Weapons Platoon at this combat outpost deep in Afghanistan’s Helmand province – Taliban territory.

He also serves as the company’s Catholic lay leader, combining his Catholic faith and special training provided by a military chaplain to serve as a faith presence for Catholics and non-Catholics at the camp where the men sleep in unheated tents, have no showers, and use plywood with holes over barrels as toilets.

There’s no shortage of razor wire, sandbags and dust, and the cocoa-colored earth is deep in mud where pools of water formed from the last downpour. Temperatures surpass 130 degrees in summer and fall below freezing in winter.


Cpl. Munoz told Catholic News Service that when his “very religious” mother and devout Catholic father separated, he went with his father to San Diego. At age 15 he entered the Catholic Church during the Easter Vigil at San Diego’s St. Mary Magdalene Church. He prayed more, joined the parish youth group and became an altar server.

When his father died, and he moved in with his aunt, Teresita Cpl. Munoz, in Coos Bay, Ore., where he continued as an altar server and graduated a semester early from high school.

“I enlisted a week after graduating,” the 6-foot, 200-pound Marine recalled. “My mom’s side of the family was big into the military, but had no Marines. I wanted to be the first. My grades were more than par” for college, he said, “but I guess everybody wants to be a hero.”


Cpl. Munoz’s first deployment was to Iraq, where “there was only one chaplain for about 1,000 of us, and he always looked tired,” he recalled. His gunnery sergeant asked if he would volunteer to become a lay leader to help fill the need.

“I said yes. I consider it a privilege,” Cpl. Munoz said. A battalion chaplain then trained him, providing tips on how to spot Marines needing special support and how to help and encourage them.

“Sometimes it’s as simple as praying with them,” he said.

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posted January 5, 2010 at 2:44 pm

Deacon Greg,
The young man is not, in fact, a soldier. He’s a US Marine. Soldiers are members of the US Army [or that of their respective country]. As I’m sure you wouldn’t wish to be identified as a priest or an Episcopalian, I respectfully ask that you not casually confuse Soldiers and Marines. Most folks don’t care about such things, which I find sad, but it does matter some to those who wear the uniform.

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posted January 15, 2010 at 12:51 am

Totally agree with lynn. My boyfriend is out in afghanistan right now with this young man in 1/3 but bravo instead of alpha company and i dislike when people call him a soldier. he is not an ARMY SOLDIER! he is a UNITED STATES MARINE, and he also dislikes it when he is called a soldier. he did not train to be a soldier. he trained to be a MARINE he says.

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