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My Response to the Priest Scandal

I wrote an op-ed that ran in the “Baltimore Sun” and other papers shortly after news broke about the Boston priest scandal in winter of 2002.
Here are excerpts from that piece:

I almost wiped off the black smudge from my forehead immediately following the Ash Wednesday service several weeks ago. Almost.
I had just read about the Boston priest scandal and my stomach sank with disgust. Like most new moms I know, I immediately thought about my 8-month-old son, and about how outraged I would be upon learning that a trusted priest, a family friend, had abused him in any way.
In my view, sexual molestation of children is the grossest, most perverted offense imaginable.
It’s the most severe violation of a young person’s respect and dignity, thwarting healthy emotional, psychological and spiritual development, and often causing irreparable and permanent damage.
I blame the guilty pedophiles for their heinous crimes. But I also blame the press for making pedophilia seem unique to the Catholic Church.
No profession is without its bad apples. After all, how much confidence would I have in the health care system if I knew about every physician who had been busted for medical malpractice?
I might bury my life savings under my mattress if I knew about all the small Enrons out there. And I know the government is not immune corruption. I have a brain.
Granted, Catholics have committed their share of sins. The Crusades are proof of that. But it does seem that we wear the black hats a little too often in the papers.
Our history is also filled with heroic white-hat moments, like the image of Pope John Paul II bowing his head before the Western Wall in Jerusalem, praying for forgiveness for the suffering of the Jewish people. Or the deep regret he offered to Archbishop Christodoulos, the Greek Orthodox leader, in his visit to Greece, an unprecedented act of reconciliation to mend the rift between the Roman Catholic and Eastern Orthodox churches dating to the Great Schism of the 11th century.
I like being Catholic. Simple, but true. And it’s the reason I remain faithful to my religion despite the warts that continually need treating.
I’m also hanging with the curious breed of people called Catholics because of the priests I know and love, especially the one who married my husband and me, who never forgets my birthday, my feast day, my wedding anniversary. Because of the one whom I trust with my life and my son’s life. That’s why.

  • Rhonda

    Thank you for sharing this with us. My only response so far had been….”think of all the many preachers you hear about being caught in an affair or trying to pick up prostitutes?” The answer is “a bunch”. We are all human and no one is infallable.
    I think the media is to blame for a lot of this; the way they never give up on getting a story no one else has. And they feel no responsibility for ruining the lives of innocent victims.
    Also because the Catholic church is so old and large, others are always trying to find a way to discredit us Catholics.
    Where I live I have had new neighbors stop talking to me because I am Catholic. Eventually they always come around because I am a very nice, friendly person who is willing to help anyone in need. Even if it is only to be a friend.
    I think this is the best way to show others that being Catholic is a good thing.
    Thank you!

  • Pacific231

    Therese, the supreme point of importance missing from your op-ed is the grim reality that the Catholic Church hierarchy repeatedly concealed the pedophelic acts of many priests over years of abuse, shuffling them from one parish to the next after those priests victimized more children. The reality of active concealment of these pedophiles at the ‘executive’ level of the CC is not addressed in your op-ed nor in your more recent blog entry.

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