Be Yourself - It takes a long time for many to grow into themselves and feel comfortable in their own skin. Somewhere along the line we learned that others will like us more if we play a certain role - act a certain way. Now is the time to allow yourself to be YOU again. Rediscover the interests you held when you were younger. Spend time contemplating the role you play in your relationships and ask yourself if it's really you. This is the first step.