An effective way to correct your chemistry meter is to do what I call Circular Dating. This means you date more than one man at a time until you have the commitment you want from the man who is right for you. And you do this by going out with guys you’re not necessarily attracted to but who are doing what they’re supposed to be doing – that is: calling you, following up with you, and asking you out.
Passion comes from something inside you (not from some guy), and then when you feel safe with someone, you let it out. You’ll be surprised by how passionate some of these guys you’re not initially head over heels for can be...if you give them a chance.
If you think you feel so much chemistry for the men who leave you hanging, just imagine what you can experience with a man who truly cares for you, cherishes you, and does what a man is supposed to do when he’s into you!
Circular Dating is free therapy: when you date the guys who show up in your life, you won’t get hung up on any one guy. You also learn to build chemistry by slowly trusting a man and letting your inner fire come out – with a man who’s truly good to you. Don’t let your chemistry meter allow you to accept less than the behavior – and the love – you deserve.
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