This tip is easier said than done. However, if you can master this skill after a breakup, then you can conquer anything. After you’ve given yourself sufficient time to mourn the relationship, make a conscious decision to stop feeling bad for yourself. Choose to think positive thoughts about yourself, about love and about your future romantic prospects. Do this and the whole world will begin to notice how enjoyable it is to be around you. You may even meet someone new thanks to your new attitude!