Take a good, hard look at yourself. Think about your best qualities, and then think about your worst qualities. Would you want to date someone like you? If you don’t exude the qualities that you expect from a partner, how can you find that for yourself? Make a list of the most important qualities you expect in a friend or a spouse. If you don’t meet the expectations set out on that list, then you have some work to do on yourself before you can expect to have a relationship with someone who meets those expectations. If you’re looking for someone who shares your Christian values, then try looking for them on websites like ChristianMingle.com where you can find someone who shares your faith.