You Can Find Your Soulmate at Any Age

I Married My Soulmate at 44

By Arielle Ford

I didn’t meet and marry my soulmate until I was 44. It was in my early forties that I decided to find my soulmate using everything I had ever learned about manifestation, psychology, spirituality, and the Law of Attraction.

My intentions became crystal-clear while I simultaneously cleared out the clutter in my house and in my heart. I learned and invented techniques, rituals, visualizations, and prayers that helped me prepare my body, mind, spirit, and home for an amazing relationship.

They worked! I met my husband, Brian, who has exceeded all of my desires and expectations. He was and is everything I ever wished for. Here’s what I know for sure: finding true love is possible for anyone at any age. To manifest your soulmate, here are the top 10 things to do and remember.

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Arielle Ford is the author of The Soulmate Secret: Manifest the Love of Your Life with the Law of Attraction (Harper One). She lives in La Jolla, Calif., with her husband. Visit her at www.soulmatesecret.com.

Create Personalized Rituals

It is important to design personal rituals to allow yourself to connect to your heart's desire. Prior to meeting Brian 10 years ago, I had a daily ritual in which I would light several candles at sunset, put on my favorite CD of Gregorian chants, and sit in my big, cozy chair. With my eyes closed I would drop into the feeling of remembering the joy of having my soulmate in my life. I would experience these wonderful feelings in every part of my body knowing that he was on the way. There were days when the thought that he was very late did cross my mind, but I would just let those thoughts go and get back into a state of grace, feeling and knowing that his arrival was assured.

Clear Out the Clutter in Your Home

Eliminating physical clutter from your life is one of the fastest ways to increase the inflow of new positive energy--especially when you clean out your closets! At the same time, you also want to create physical space for your soon-to-arrive beloved. Make sure to clear some space in your closet and keep the nightstand on your soul mate’s side of the bed empty so that when he or she arrives, it can be filled with their own personal items. Remember the old saying, “Nature abhors a vacuum”? It applies here. Create space so the Universe can deliver your soulmate into a home that welcomes him or her. Even if you never plan to have your soulmate live with you in your space, it's essential to do this.