How to Have a Happier Thanksgiving

Focus on Being Thankful

By Rev. Laurie Sue Brockway

Not everyone loves family gatherings. For some, events such as Thanksgiving dinner may be rough, especially if family tension is a side dish served with the meal.

Given the year this has been, perhaps this is the time to rise above fear--and annoyance--to make it a warm and cozy family celebration.

You can turn any gathering into a sacred occasion if you emphasize the positive. Your intention to add to the good feelings will go a long way! A joyous family event is usually a mix of sweet memories mingled with an appreciation of the present moment. Here are eight special tips for feeding your hunger for family closeness and joy.

Laurie Sue Brockway is author of The Goddess Pages: A Divine Guide to Finding Love and Happiness.

Say Grace

Even if your family has never said a dinner prayer in their lives, suggest one this year; or add this prayer to the customary grace that is said at dinner.

Adapt this prayer to your family religious and spiritual beliefs:

We are so grateful for the opportunity to gather with family (and friends).
We are thankful for the delicious dinner that has been prepared with love.
As we begin, let us express gratitude for what we have.
May we all be blessed with health and happiness today, and always.
May good experiences be bountiful and challenges be few.
And may we take a moment to send our good thoughts and blessings for peace out to the world.
Let us all be uplifted and embraced by love.
Dig in and enjoy!