Secret Number Six: Being other centered is the best thing you can do for yourself. I discovered that my wife’s love language is acts of service. So one day when she was away for three hours I made our house look like a model home. I put away, stored, threw away and cleaned stuff all over. When she walked in and saw what I had been up to, she could not stop crying. Before that act I had really been trying to stay tuned to her needs and she had already begun to wonder what had happened to me and why she felt so good about us and about life.
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