You may again share a future holiday with someone special—but don’t be in a hurry for that. In time, you may find that you are ready for a new relationship. When you stop comparing your lost love to your new prospect, only then will you know you are ready. One other clue that your new relationship is a good one: you will be able to talk freely about your lost love. Your next true love will be different but so will you. You will love again, and in time what was once painful will be empowering.