This is a big one and probably deserves its own article. Emotional and psychological scars from past experiences and relationships can really wreck havoc on your current energy vibration. It’s easier than you think for a potential partner to pick up on all that drama and trauma you’re carrying around with you. And I’m not just talking about what you tell someone else about your past history (cue the dating coaches… “don’t talk about your exes on a first date!”). We’re all more intuitive than we give ourselves credit for, and it’s pretty easy (especially for guys who have met a lot of women and have experience dating, for example) to pick up on things like insecurity, vulnerability, self-doubt, lack of confidence, anger / angst toward a past relationship gone bad, etc.
In fact, a lot of “player” types are tuned in to specifically to these things, because it makes it easier for them to potentially take advantage of or manipulate a situation. Besides, all that stuff comes out the more you get to know someone, and if you haven’t cleaned up those negative energy patterns, they starts showing up and muddying the relationship you’re in (even if both parties have the best of intentions). In energy terms, you have to release / let go of any past negative energy vibrations, otherwise those same negative patterns start manifesting in your present relationships.
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