Candor is the Habit you will now delve into. Candor is about having the courage to engage in challenging conversations. When done appropriately, it is among the most enriching gifts you can give yourself and others.

Is there something you have wanted to say to a friend, co-worker or loved one that makes your heart beat fast with fear? First, make certain you are not attacking someone’s being but rather addressing his or her doing.

Then ask yourself, are you employing Candor so that your relationship will be stronger? Remember, too, that Candor can be loving only if you are unattached to the results. Take time, ask if the other person is willing to receive feedback, begin with positives, and allow time to respond.