5 Happiness Tips
The Happiness Challenge
To help become more realistically optimistic and, as a result, happier, take the happiness challenge. Here it is:
1. Identify something that often makes you unhappy.
This could be being stuck in traffic, seeing your child’s room always messy, getting stress from work or anything similar: it just has to lower your mood and happen on a regular basis.
2. Write down three positive ways of looking at the situation. Once you’ve come up with a situation you don’t like, find three ways of seeing it in a positive light and write them down.
Example:
| Rush hour traffic | “I’m grateful to have a car.” |
| Child’s room is a mess | “I’m so lucky to have a child at all – this is only a tiny problem.” |
| Long line at the store | “I’m in this store because I’ve got enough money to buy things.” |
| Too much work | “I have a job and I can rely on my colleagues if this really gets to be too much.” |
| Plane flight cancelled because of bad weather | “I’m happy to be safe on the ground rather than bouncing around in the plane with this storm.” |
| I have a million things to do on my to-do list and can’t get them all done | “I’m so fortunate that I have the ability to help so many people – including myself.” |
| Rush hour traffic | “I’m grateful to have a car.” |
| Child’s room is a mess | “I’m so lucky to have a child at all – this is only a tiny problem.” |
| Long line at the store | “I’m in this store because I’ve got enough money to buy things.” |
| Too much work | “I have a job and I can rely on my colleagues if this really gets to be too much.” |
| Plane flight cancelled because of bad weather | “I’m happy to be safe on the ground rather than bouncing around in the plane with this storm.” |
| I have a million things to do on my to-do list and can’t get them all done | “I’m so fortunate that I have the ability to help so many people – including myself.” |
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