'What things are most important to you?'

A great way to get to know someone is to find out what they are most passionate about. What things are most important to them in life? It could be family and friends, their career, shopping or reality TV. Either way, this helps you discover what he or she spends the most time thinking about and what they place above everything else. Your list may not mirror theirs and that’s OK. If you think their list is ridiculous, you may not be compatible.

'What’s your vision for the future?'

Does their vision match your lifestyle expectations? This question will help you determine what their future may look like, or at least what they want their future to look like. They may see themselves being married, starting a new business, having children or selling their home and moving to a different area. This will ultimately help you figure out whether he or she has a vision for the future and if you can see yourself in that vision. If their vision requires a major life change, you should ask yourself if you’re willing to join them on that journey. .

When you are dating someone new, it’s so important that you get know what they’ve experienced, what’s important to them and how important it is to them. These eight questions will reveal layers of their truth and help you discover if they are worth investing your time in. God should be at the center of their life and the one who leads them. There’s no need to waste your time if they are not in line with what you’re looking for or if they are emotionally unavailable.