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Have you given this over to God?
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Have you sought out unbiased support from a professional or counselor?
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Are you prepared for the long-term effect this could have on your children and yourself?
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Have you prepared yourself financially to support yourself?
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Have you forgiven your spouse for their transgressions?
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Do you feel forgiven by your spouse for your transgressions?
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Do we mostly fight about money and finances?
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Do I trust my spouse?
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Does my spouse trust me?
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