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You have a scheduled, predictable time to gather with your family for fun.
2
You have discussed family rules and consequences and evaluate the appropriateness of these rules every six months or so.
3
You tuck your young child into bed each night you are home or spend time with older kids.
4
You eat at least one meal together most days.
5
Put-downs and mean-spirited teasing are not allowed in your home.
6
You have laughed together at least once this week.
7
You listen to each other with respect even when you disagree.
8
You usually know what your child worries about.
9
You talk about your family traditions, history, and ancestors.
10
You have predictable opportunities for each family member to be heard--casual discussions, family meetings, a family journal, car conversations.
11
You know your child's favorite song, music group, or sports team.
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