{"id":81,"date":"2009-06-29T16:38:08","date_gmt":"2009-06-29T16:38:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/yourdailyspiritualstimulus\/2009\/06\/money-coaching-money-the-dark-side-of-money.html"},"modified":"2009-06-29T16:38:08","modified_gmt":"2009-06-29T16:38:08","slug":"money-coaching-money-the-dark-side-of-money","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/yourdailyspiritualstimulus\/2009\/06\/money-coaching-money-the-dark-side-of-money.html","title":{"rendered":"Money Coaching Monday: The Dark Side of Money"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When the morning news announced that Bernie Madoff was sentenced to 150 years in prison today, I found myself wanting to do the &#8220;happy dance.&#8221; But I didn&#8217;t&#8230;simply because that first wave of elation quickly subsided into sadness.&nbsp; <\/p>\n<p>No, I&#8217;m not sad for Bernie. I am sad about all those people who trusted him with their money who have now lost everything. And, I am sad (and angry!) for those who have been so deeply betrayed that they might not ever fully recover or trust another person again. Losing your life&#8217;s savings is hard enough to bear, but the loss of one&#8217;s ability to trust is perhaps the greatest loss one could ever experience.<\/p>\n<p>So, maybe it is true that the &#8220;love of money&#8221; is the root of all evil. That someone could love money so much that they would lie, steal, cheat, and manipulate <i>everyone<\/i> in their life in order to obtain it is inconceivable to most of us. How can we possibly protect ourselves from &#8220;the dark side&#8221; of money and the likes of Bernie Madoff?<\/p>\n<p>Unfortunately, I do not have an easy answer to that question. However, as a Money Coach there are a few things I have always recommended to my clients that might be worthy of your consideration. When it comes to money:<\/p>\n<p>1. If it looks too good to be true, it probably is.<br \/>2. Never put all your financial eggs in one basket. <br \/>3.Always be diversified in both investments and <i>management.<br \/><\/i>4<i>.<\/i>Understand your risk tolerance and never let others convince you to invest otherwise.<br \/>5. If your investment advisor refuses to answer your questions, or makes you uncomfortable&#8230;run!<br \/>6. There are good and bad professionals in <i>ever<\/i>y profession. Just because Bernie made off with the money doesn&#8217;t mean all financial advisors are bad. So if need financial help and advice, get it.<br \/>7. Never give your financial power away to anyone else. Learn to read your statements,<br \/>ask questions and hold your advisors accountable to real performance.<br \/>8. Let your heart and gut guide your financial decisions. <\/p>\n<p>Since apparently, even the smartest, most careful people in the world couldn&#8217;t see through Bernie&#8217;s facade&#8230;pray for God&#8217;s love, guidance and protection around all areas of your life,<br \/>including your financial well-being. Given recent events, that may be the best investment advice yet.<\/p>\n<p>Peace and Blessings!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When the morning news announced that Bernie Madoff was sentenced to 150 years in prison today, I found myself wanting to do the &#8220;happy dance.&#8221; But I didn&#8217;t&#8230;simply because that first wave of elation quickly subsided into sadness.&nbsp; No, I&#8217;m not sad for Bernie. 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