{"id":63,"date":"2009-06-01T14:03:46","date_gmt":"2009-06-01T14:03:46","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/yourdailyspiritualstimulus\/2009\/06\/todays-money-coaching-blog-is.html"},"modified":"2009-06-01T14:03:46","modified_gmt":"2009-06-01T14:03:46","slug":"todays-money-coaching-blog-is","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/yourdailyspiritualstimulus\/2009\/06\/todays-money-coaching-blog-is.html","title":{"rendered":"Money Coaching Monday: Financial Forgiveness"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Today&#8217;s Money Coaching blog is in response to Danny who wrote in with the following situation:<\/p>\n<p>&#8220;It&#8217;s been just a couple of weeks since I was laid off but the pressure<br \/>\nfrom my wife to do better is sometimes disheartening. I have made so<br \/>\nmany mistakes in the past that they are coming back to haunt me through<br \/>\nher lack of faith in my ability to find new employment. She believes<br \/>\nthat I am not doing it fast enough and that things should happen faster.<br \/>\nI know that she means well but sometimes I lose heart.&#8221; <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/cgi-bin\/mt\/mt.cgi?__mode=list_comment&amp;blog_id=149&amp;offset=100\">(read more&#8230;)<\/a><\/p>\n<p>Dear Danny,<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m sorry to hear of your recent job loss and the stress that this is<br \/>\nputting on your relationship. You mentioned that you are being haunted<br \/>\nby past mistakes and I would like to address this with you. It seems as<br \/>\nthough both you and your wife need to let go of the past &#8212; I mean<br \/>\nreally be done with it &#8212; and forgive each other<br \/>\nso that you can be free of it and move forward to creating a new and<br \/>\nbetter life.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s important to remember: <i>You are not your mistakes.<\/i> Mistakes are<br \/>\njust R&amp;D ( Research and Development) and almost everything wonderful and<br \/>\namazing comes about through learning <i>what doesn&#8217;t work<\/i> and then<br \/>\napplying that knowledge and awareness to finding out <i>what does<\/i>. But if<br \/>\nwe, or those around us, only focus on the mistakes and what we&#8217;ve done<br \/>\nwrong, they usually end up with more of the same. If you want things to<br \/>\nchange, you both need to get on the same page and focus on creating<i> what you do want.<\/i>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>So. I recommend that you and your wife do the following exercise together:<\/p>\n<p>Answer these Questions<br \/>1.&nbsp;<br \/>\nWhat do you love and appreciate about each other?<br \/>2.&nbsp; What do you want your life to look like?<br \/>\n<br \/>3. How much money do you think it will take to create this reality?<br \/>\n<br \/>4. What life experience, skills and talents do you have to lend to<br \/>\ncreating it?<br \/>\n<br \/>5. How much time, energy and resources are you willing to commit to<br \/>\nbuilding this reality?<br \/>6. Who or what is preventing you from beginning to create this life? <\/p>\n<p>We only have this one beautiful, miraculous life and it is up to us what<br \/>\nwe do with it. Put your heart, energy, intention and ATTENTION on making<br \/>\nthis one life and gift that you&#8217;ve been given something wonderful to<br \/>\nbehold.<\/p>\n<p>We are all children of God and as such are blessed with<br \/>\n&#8220;Designer Genes.&#8221; You have it&nbsp; within you to make a new life. If you<br \/>\nneed help getting there, ask for help&#8230;it&#8217;s okay. We all need help and support. You<br \/>\ndeserve it, so take heed and don&#8217;t look back.<\/p>\n<p>Please join our <a href=\"http:\/\/community.beliefnet.com\/go\/network\/search?terms=financial+prayer+circle&amp;type=discussions\">Financial Prayer Circle<\/a> and offer your prayers of support to Danny and his wife.<\/p>\n<p>Peace &amp; Blessings!<\/p>\n<table class=\"moz-vcard-table\" width=\"10\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td valign=\"top\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/cgi-bin\/mt\/mt.cgi?__mode=list_comment&amp;blog_id=149&amp;offset=100\"><br \/><\/a><\/td>\n<td>\n<table id=\"moz-vcard-properties-table\">\n<tbody>\n<tr>\n<td class=\"moz-vcard-title-property\"><\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n<\/td>\n<\/tr>\n<\/tbody>\n<\/table>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Today&#8217;s Money Coaching blog is in response to Danny who wrote in with the following situation: &#8220;It&#8217;s been just a couple of weeks since I was laid off but the pressure from my wife to do better is sometimes disheartening. 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