{"id":53,"date":"2009-05-19T15:08:43","date_gmt":"2009-05-19T15:08:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/yourdailyspiritualstimulus\/2009\/05\/a-few-days-ago-i.html"},"modified":"2009-05-19T15:08:43","modified_gmt":"2009-05-19T15:08:43","slug":"a-few-days-ago-i","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/yourdailyspiritualstimulus\/2009\/05\/a-few-days-ago-i.html","title":{"rendered":"Taking Care of Your Family&#8217;s Financial Needs"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>A few days ago I wrote a blog about <a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/yourdailyspiritualstimulus\/2009\/05\/our-journeys-end-end-of-life-planning.html\">End-of-Life-Planning<\/a>. It occurred to me<br \/>\nthat there&#8217;s more I&#8217;d like to share with you on that subject based<br \/>\nupon my personal experience. <\/p>\n<p>My father died very suddenly at the age of 50 from a massive heart<br \/>\nattack. He was from the South and had a deep love of all things fried<br \/>\nand camel cigarettes,without the filter. With his passing, my mother became a young widow and single-parent<br \/>\novernight. All he left her was a $10,000 life insurance policy, which<br \/>\nmy mother, who was financially na\u00efve, thought was a small fortune.<br \/>\nShe&#8217;d never had that much money at once in her entire life.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;It took<br \/>\nless than a year for her to realize that financially, things were about<br \/>\nto get tough. Both my parents had always worked and pretty much lived<br \/>\npay check to pay check. Suddenly,&nbsp; with only one income &#8211; and that of a waitress<br \/>\nno less, there simply wasn&#8217;t enough.<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m pretty sure my parents never even talked about planning for the<br \/>\nfuture or what would happen if one of them died prematurely. They<br \/>\nembodied what we refer to in Money Coaching as the classic Innocent<br \/>\nMoney Type. You may recognize some of these Innocent characteristics in<br \/>\nyourself:<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to money and personal finances, Innocent Money Types are:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\nProne to living in financial denial.<\/li>\n<li>\nFearful and anxious about money.<\/li>\n<li>\nRepresses their feelings and beliefs about money.<\/li>\n<li>\nFinancially na\u00efve and disempowered.<\/li>\n<li>\nAvoids talking about important financial issues.<\/li>\n<li>\nPrefers someone else to manage the finances.<\/li>\n<li>\nCa be easily taken advantage of financially.<\/li>\n<li>\nCan be easily blindsided by unexpected financial issues.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Having witnessed so much financial struggle in my parents lives has deeply influenced my own<br \/>\nlife and choices. Part of the reason that I became a financial advisor<br \/>\nwas to become financially educated and empowered. Years later,<br \/>\nI realized that not only are most people not taught what they need to know to<br \/>\nbe financially successful, most of us have unconscious patterns and<br \/>\nbeliefs about money that rule our money<br \/>\nbehaviors. <\/p>\n<p>So between the lack of financial education and our emotions, most people just repeat the what they&#8217;ve<br \/>\nlearned &#8212; or didn&#8217;t learn &#8212; over and over again from one generation<br \/>\nto the next.<\/p>\n<p>I am deeply committed to changing this which is why I founded the<br \/>\nMoney Coaching Institute. I want to help people to step into their personal and<br \/>\nfinancial potential because this is also part of our spiritual<br \/>\ngrowth and maturity. <\/p>\n<p>I believe that God wants us to become better with our<br \/>\nfinances so that we can become able vessels for receiving all of our good.<br \/>\nIn order to do this, however, we must move beyond the Innocent<br \/>\narchetype.<\/p>\n<p>One of the ways to do this is to begin taking actions to<br \/>\nensure those you leave behind are taken care of. Here are some things you can do to ensure your loved ones will be okay:<\/p>\n<p>1. Buy life insurance. Term insurance is very cheap depending on your age and<br \/>\nhealth. At a minimum, if you can afford it, get enough to pay off the<br \/>\nhouse and cover your income loss while you still have children at home<br \/>\nor in college.<\/p>\n<p>2. Look into Long-Term Care Insurance so that you&#8217;re spouse or children can afford to have you<br \/>\nproperly cared for in the event of a long-term illness. Policies with<br \/>\nhome health care options are the best to have.<\/p>\n<p>3. Create a living will with a <font><font><a href=\"http:\/\/www.caringinfo.org\/stateaddownload.\">state approved medical directive<\/a><\/font> <\/font>so that<br \/>\nyour family can manage your care in the manner you wish in the event<br \/>\nyou are unable to communicate on your own behalf.<\/p>\n<p>4. Get a proper will and\/or trust made up so that your family can settle your estate properly without any legal issues. Families can be torn apart by legal disputes and believe me, it happens every day.<\/p>\n<p>5. The care and attention you put into planning for your<br \/>\nfamily now, will allow them to live with your loving financial support<br \/>\nlong after your gone. Trust me, they will remember you with gratitude<br \/>\nrather than sadness or regret, for their entire lives.<\/p>\n<p>Just make a plan and do what you can! <\/p>\n<p>Peace and Blessings!<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A few days ago I wrote a blog about End-of-Life-Planning. It occurred to me that there&#8217;s more I&#8217;d like to share with you on that subject based upon my personal experience. My father died very suddenly at the age of 50 from a massive heart attack. 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