{"id":246,"date":"2010-02-12T00:47:35","date_gmt":"2010-02-12T00:47:35","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/yourdailyspiritualstimulus\/2010\/02\/the-golden-rules-for-your-kids.html"},"modified":"2010-02-12T00:47:35","modified_gmt":"2010-02-12T00:47:35","slug":"the-golden-rules-for-your-kids","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/yourdailyspiritualstimulus\/2010\/02\/the-golden-rules-for-your-kids.html","title":{"rendered":"The Golden Rules: For Your Kids"},"content":{"rendered":"<div align=\"center\">\n<div align=\"left\"><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/yourdailyspiritualstimulus\/iStock_000009754679XSmall.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"iStock_000009754679XSmall.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/203\/import\/assets_c\/2010\/02\/iStock_000009754679XSmall-thumb-400x265-11465.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-center\" style=\"margin: 0pt auto 20px;text-align: center\" height=\"265\" width=\"400\" \/><\/a><\/span><br \/><font>I have a teenager. And no matter how wise I think I am &#8212; there are just some things that are simply better left said by others. I&#8217;m sure all of you parents know what I mean. So, when I came across timeless piece of wisdom from the <\/font><font><i>The Prairie Rambler, February 1998<\/i>, I thought I&#8217;d share it with you. Simply print it and tape it to your teenager&#8217;s bedroom door.&nbsp; <\/font><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><i><\/i><\/p>\n<div align=\"center\"><font><b><font><i><font>Ten Rules Kids Won&#8217;t Learn In School<\/font><\/i><\/font><\/b><\/font><\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div align=\"center\"> <font>1. Life is not fair. Get used to it. The average teenager uses the phrase &#8220;It&#8217;s not fair&#8221; 86 times a day.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font><br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp; 2. The real world won&#8217;t care as much about your self-esteem as your school does. This may come as a shock.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font><br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp; 3. Sorry, but you won&#8217;t make $40,000 a year right out of high<br \/>\nschool. And you won&#8217;t be a vice president or have a car phone, either.<br \/>\nYou may even have to wear a uniform that doesn&#8217;t have a designer label.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font><br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp; 4. If you think your teacher is tough, wait until you get a boss.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font><br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp; 5. Flipping burgers is not beneath dignity. Your grandparents had a<br \/>\ndifferent word for burger flipping. They called it opportunity.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font><br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp; 6. It&#8217;s not your parents fault if you mess up. You&#8217;re responsible!<br \/>\nThis is the flip side of &#8220;It&#8217;s my life&#8221; and &#8220;You&#8217;re not my boss.&#8221;<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font><br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp; 7. Before you were born your parents were not boring. They got that way paying your bills and listening to you.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font><br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp; 8. Life is not divided into semesters. And you don&#8217;t get summers<br \/>\noff. Not even spring break. You are expected to show up every day for<br \/>\neight hours; and you don&#8217;t get a new life every 10 weeks.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font><br \/>\n&nbsp;&nbsp; 9. Smoking does not make you look cool. Watch an 11-year-old with a<br \/>\nbutt in his mouth. That&#8217;s what you look like to anyone over 20.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font><br \/>\n&nbsp; 10. Your school may be &#8220;outcome-based,&#8221; but life is not. In some<br \/>\nschools, you&#8217;re given as many as times as you want to get the answer<br \/>\nright. Standards are set low enough so everyone can meet them. This, of<br \/>\ncourse, bears not the slightest resemblance to anything in real life&#8211;as<br \/>\nyou will find out. <\/font><\/p>\n<p><font><br \/>\nGood luck! You are going to need it&#8211;<\/font><br \/><font><br \/>\nand the harder you work, the luckier you will get.<\/font><\/p>\n<p><font>~ <i>The Prairie Rambler, February 1998<\/i><\/font><br \/><font>&nbsp; <\/font><br \/>\n<font>Peace &amp; Blessings to All!<\/font><\/div>\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I have a teenager. And no matter how wise I think I am &#8212; there are just some things that are simply better left said by others. I&#8217;m sure all of you parents know what I mean. 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