{"id":59,"date":"2009-04-23T19:45:22","date_gmt":"2009-04-23T19:45:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/yourcharmedlife\/2009\/04\/meditation-101.html"},"modified":"2009-04-23T19:45:22","modified_gmt":"2009-04-23T19:45:22","slug":"meditation-101","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/yourcharmedlife\/2009\/04\/meditation-101.html","title":{"rendered":"Meditation 101"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>When my first yoga teacher told me that meditation would do me good, I had two thoughts&#8211;both terrifying&#8211;in rapid succession. First was, &#8220;I&#8217;ll get bored.&#8221; Second: &#8220;I&#8217;ll miss something.&#8221; It turned out that I was sometimes bored, but I lived through it, gaining some patience in the process. And I don&#8217;t think I&#8217;ve ever missed anything except a few phone calls I could return later.<\/p>\n<p>We live in a glittery world with lots to attract our attention. Those of us who find the notion of meditation least appealing&#8212;we who are especially fond of action, momentum, excitement, and adrenaline&#8212;have an even greater need for this quieting practice than those calm people we&#8217;ve never understood much. We devotees of the high life can use, perhaps more than anyone else, a practice that can still the thoughts, awaken the intuition, and lead to peace of mind and freedom of spirit. <\/p>\n<p>We know that meditation leads to improved physical and mental functioning, that regular meditators suffer less from chronic disease and take fewer sick days. They&#8217;re even &#8220;younger&#8221; physiologically than non-meditators. You&#8217;d think that with all those benefits, the fact that it doesn&#8217;t cost a penny, and that meditation requires no formal training, we&#8217;d all be doing it. Only those fears &#8212; &#8220;I might be bored, and maybe I&#8217;ll miss something&#8221; &#8212; stand between us and the Great Peace the practice promises.<\/p>\n<p>Meditation is simply bringing your awareness to a single point. The point might be the image of a holy personage, the light of a candle, the breath going in and out of your nostrils, a mantra (sound vibration), or an affirmation of line of scripture. I personally like &#8220;All is well&#8221; (inhale on &#8220;all is,&#8221; exhale on &#8220;well&#8221;), because it does double duty: It gives me a focal point and convinces that there is a level of consciousness at which things are not as all-fired awful as some would want us to believe.<\/p>\n<p>The secret of meditation is returning, returning to the point of awareness. Thoughts come. You return. The thoughts are enticing. Interesting. Fascinating. But you don&#8217;t go with them. You return to the image or the breath or the mantra. This is such a metaphor, I think, for living a charmed life during the 23-and-a-half hours we&#8217;re not meditating. It&#8217;s a process of turning away from anger, back to center; from self-defeat, back to starting over; from fear, back to knowing that we&#8217;re loved and cared for, no matter what.<\/p>\n<p>Sometimes meditation has immediate rewards. You walk away feeling more energetic or more positive, or you get some flash of intuition you can use in a practical situation. Much of the time, however, you don&#8217;t feel anything. That doesn&#8217;t mean nothing is happening. You&#8217;re learning focus, you&#8217;re gaining control of the ego-mind that likes to jump from concept to idea to memory to yearning. And at times you touch the place of peace &#8212; the one that passes understanding &#8212; that is so worth being bored and missing the phone call.\u00a0 <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When my first yoga teacher told me that meditation would do me good, I had two thoughts&#8211;both terrifying&#8211;in rapid succession. First was, &#8220;I&#8217;ll get bored.&#8221; Second: &#8220;I&#8217;ll miss something.&#8221; It turned out that I was sometimes bored, but I lived through it, gaining some patience in the process. 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