{"id":51,"date":"2009-03-06T03:33:44","date_gmt":"2009-03-06T03:33:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/yourcharmedlife\/2009\/03\/playing-favorites.html"},"modified":"2009-03-06T03:33:44","modified_gmt":"2009-03-06T03:33:44","slug":"playing-favorites","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/yourcharmedlife\/2009\/03\/playing-favorites.html","title":{"rendered":"Playing Favorites"},"content":{"rendered":"

Here’s an exercise for more self-knowledge and self-appreciation. It’s called “Playing Favorites.” To do it, pretend that you’re Sister Maria from The Sound of Music<\/i> you ask yourself, “What is my favorite thing?” Then list everything you can think of in every area of life. <\/p>\n

Coming up with 100 is not excessive. Remember, these are not things you want<\/i> but rather things you love<\/i>. For example, you can write that your favorite city is Paris without wanting to move there (or feeling glum that you won’t be moving there). This is not a wish list, but instead a getting-to-know-yourself list and coming to see how amazing and magnificent you are. Here’s an example (the answers are mine and they’re real):<\/p>\n

What is my favorite?…<\/p>\n

Color: Tiffany blue
Thing to do: Meet my daughter Adair<\/a> for tea
Actor: Ed Harris
Actress: Diane Keaton
Season: Fall
Item of clothing: Dark blue corduroy dress I’m wearing on the cover of The Love-Powered Diet<\/i><\/a>
Poem: “Intimations of Immortality from Recollections of Early Childhood,” Wordsworth
Current Broadway show: Guys and Dolls<\/i><\/a>
Movie of all time: Auntie Mame<\/i><\/a> (original 1958 version with Rosalind Russell)
Mode of travel: Train
Indulgence: A facial using Dr. Hauschka<\/a> products at Soho Sanctuary<\/a>, NYC
Holiday: Christmas
Fiction book: The Mists of Avalon<\/i><\/a>, Marion Zimmer Bradley
Health book: Perfect Health<\/i><\/a>, Deepak Chopra
Spirituality book: The Seat of the Soul<\/i><\/a>,Gary Zukav
Feng shui book: The Western Guide to Feng Shui<\/i><\/a>, Terah Kathryn Collins
Restaurant: Pure Food & Wine<\/a>, NYC
Restaurant dish: “Alkalarian Delight” (a 3-courses, living food) at Caravan of Dreams<\/a>, NYC)
Dish that I make myself: Victoria’s Vivacious Vegan Chili<\/p>\n

Okay, here’s the recipe:<\/p>\n

Note: These are approximate measures. It’s never the same twice.<\/p>\n

1 medium onion
\u00bd pound firm tofu, drained
2-4 cloves garlic, minced
2 cans red or kidney beans
1 large can diced tomatoes
10 oz. frozen organic corn
Other veggies to taste:
chopped green pepper, carrots, celery (optional)
Cumin, cayenne, chili powder, salt to taste<\/p>\n

Saute onion in olive oil. When softened, all garlic and continue saut\u00e9ing till done. Remove onion and garlic from skillet with slotted spoon. <\/p>\n

Cut the tofu in diced-sized squares and saut\u00e9 in olive oil until cooked.<\/p>\n

Mix the onion-garlic mixture and tofu in soup pot. Add beans, tomatoes, corn, other vegetables, and seasonings to taste. Simmer to mix flavors. Serve 4. Yummy – even better the next day. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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