{"id":46,"date":"2009-03-02T02:11:53","date_gmt":"2009-03-02T02:11:53","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/yourcharmedlife\/2009\/03\/in-january-healthylifenet-where-i.html"},"modified":"2009-03-02T02:11:53","modified_gmt":"2009-03-02T02:11:53","slug":"in-january-healthylifenet-where-i","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/yourcharmedlife\/2009\/03\/in-january-healthylifenet-where-i.html","title":{"rendered":"Faith, Friendship, and Patience"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In January, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.healthylife.net\/\">HealthyLife.net<\/a>, where I do my monthly radio show, did this interview. I thought you&#8217;d like to read it. I&#8217;m also writing my newsletter today, &#8220;The Charmed Monday Minute.&#8221; If you&#8217;d like to receive it, you can subscribe on <a href=\"http:\/\/www.victoriamoran.com\/\">my site<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p><b>Host of the Month Interview:<br \/><a href=\"http:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/pub\/7\/690\/2b2\">PJ Grimes<\/a> Interviews Victoria Moran<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>HL- What is a charmed life? <\/b>It&#8217;s finding the magic in every<br \/>\nday, even the days that aren&#8217;t all great. People who create charmed<br \/>\nlives for themselves can spot the scraggly little flower that pushed<br \/>\nits way up through old concrete, or see the one seemingly scraggly<br \/>\nlittle opportunity that could, if pursued, change everything..<\/p>\n<p>\n<b>HL- How does someone handle adversity? <\/b>With faith, friends,<br \/>\nand patience, I think. For me, having some kind of spiritual connection,<br \/>\nwhether that&#8217;s traditional religion or something else, is really<br \/>\nvital. If what you see is all there is and you&#8217;re seeing a lot of<br \/>\nadversity, it&#8217;s really hard to go forward. When you have a worldview<br \/>\nthat includes some kind of plan or purpose, it&#8217;s easier. <\/p>\n<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/yourcharmedlife\/Sherry%20and%20Sean.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"Sherry and Sean.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/133\/import\/assets_c\/2009\/03\/Sherry%20and%20Sean-thumb-300x218-3527.jpg\" class=\"mt-image-none\" height=\"218\" width=\"300\" \/><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>Friends<br \/>\nare a big deal for everyone, and friendship may be especially essential for women (they<br \/>\ndid that <a href=\"http:\/\/www.anapsid.org\/cnd\/gender\/tendfend.html\">study at UCLA<\/a> that showed that woman have a &#8220;tend<br \/>\nand befriend&#8221; response to stress as well as &#8220;fight or<br \/>\nflight&#8221;). I have one special friend who&#8217;s my &#8220;action partner&#8221;<br \/>\n(Broadway singer and very spiritual person, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sherryboone.com\/sherry_boone_\">Sherry Boone<\/a>, shown above with pianist\/composer <a href=\"http:\/\/www.sherryboone.com\/shawns_bio\">Sean Jeremy Palmer<\/a>). We talk early every morning and let each other know what actions<br \/>\nwe&#8217;ll take that day to make our lives better. It makes a huge difference. <\/p>\n<p>And finally: patience. I don&#8217;t like having to wait (I&#8217;m an Aries,<br \/>\nfor any astrologers reading this), but patience is such a grace.<br \/>\nMost things do work out, but it takes as long as it takes. If you<br \/>\ncan be at peace during the process, you get to have some lovely<br \/>\ndays, even before the problem you&#8217;ve got your eye on has been fully<br \/>\nresolved.<b><br \/><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>HL-Why is humor important?<\/b> It puts things in perspective.<br \/>\nBesides, it&#8217;s good for you. When you laugh, you get the same endorphins<br \/>\nthat come from heavy exercise. It&#8217;s your body&#8217;s way of giving you<br \/>\na boost.<\/p>\n<p>\n<b>HL- How does Victoria relax?<\/b>I love to read &#8212; spiritual books<br \/>\n(I just finished rereading Brian Weiss&#8217;s classic <a href=\"http:\/\/search.barnesandnoble.com\/Many-Lives-Many-Masters\/Brian-L-Weiss\/e\/9780671657864\"><i>Many Lives, Many<br \/>\nMasters<\/i><\/a>), health books (I&#8217;m reading <a href=\"http:\/\/search.barnesandnoble.com\/Raw-Food-Detox-Diet\/Natalia-Rose\/e\/9780060834371\/?itm=1\"><i>The Raw Food Detox Diet<\/i><\/a> by Natalia<br \/>\nRose), and when I&#8217;m on a long trip, there&#8217;s wonderful fiction to<br \/>\nmove into and become a part of. I also love hot baths&#8212; in fact, they inspired the chapter in my upcoming book, <a href=\"http:\/\/search.barnesandnoble.com\/Living-a-Charmed-Life\/Victoria-Moran\/e\/9780061649899\/?itm=2\"><i>Living a Charmed Life<\/i><\/a>, called &#8220;Identify and Indulge in Your Simplest Pleasure.&#8221; And I meditate. I&#8217;ve had<br \/>\na morning practice for a long time, and one of my goals for 2009<br \/>\nis to get a second meditation in every day in the late afternoon.<\/p>\n<p><b><br \/><\/b><\/p>\n<p><b>HL- What gives you inspiration?<\/b> A lot &#8212; I&#8217;m kind of an inspiration<br \/>\njunkie actually. New York City inspires the heck out me &#8212; the diversity,<br \/>\nthe wonderful, walkable way of life, the level of excellence all<br \/>\naround me in art and theater and design. Animals inspire me: they<br \/>\nknow how to live and they have a lot to teach me. And my wonderful<br \/>\nfriends. I have so many co-mentors, people I respect and who can<br \/>\nshow me a different way to look at things. <\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><b><br \/>\nHL-What kind of guests do you like to interview on your show?<\/b>The<br \/>\nkind I want to learn from myself. I figure that if a guest is fascinating<br \/>\nto me, he or she will be equally fascinating to the listeners. <\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p><b><br \/>\nHL- How is your message universal? <\/b> We&#8217;re so much more alike<br \/>\nthan different. We all want to feel good about ourselves, love and<br \/>\nbe loved, use our talents and be recognized for them, and ultimately<br \/>\nto find meaning in life. My major in college was comparative religions,<br \/>\nand I loved scribbling in the margins &#8220;I just read this same<br \/>\npoint in my Taoism class&#8221; or &#8220;This is also in the chapter<br \/>\non Judaism.&#8221; These underlying truths that are in every spiritual<br \/>\ntradition are what Aldous Huxley called <a href=\"http:\/\/search.barnesandnoble.com\/booksearch\/results.asp?WRD=perennial+philosophy\"><i>The Perennial Philosophy<\/i><\/a>.<br \/>\nI think that the more we look at those underlying connectors, rather<br \/>\nthan at our differences, the better off we&#8217;ll be.<\/p>\n<p>\n<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In January, HealthyLife.net, where I do my monthly radio show, did this interview. I thought you&#8217;d like to read it. I&#8217;m also writing my newsletter today, &#8220;The Charmed Monday Minute.&#8221; If you&#8217;d like to receive it, you can subscribe on my site. 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