\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Someone told me a long time ago that life has four basic parts that we can visualize as an all-arms-equal cross, like the Red Cross symbol. The four arms are: faith and spirituality; health, joy, and personal well-being; family, friends, and other heart connections; and work in the world: survival, service, creativity, fulfillment. <\/p>\n
\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Where we get caught up is thinking that each arm is supposed to stay static, that to achieve balance we need to give each part of our lives equal attention every day. That’s not how it works in the real world. When you have a baby or young children, that arm representing family gets longer than the others. It’s supposed to. If your company is in trouble and you’re working just about ’round the clock to save it, the work arm can seem out of balance, but for now, that’s precisely how it needs to be. And when you get away on retreat or to a spa to focus on your inner and outer self, those arms devoted to health and spirituality will extend themselves in a way that makes that “perfect” cross look unbalanced, but actually puts your life and your self and your soul in their highest state of functioning. <\/p>\n
\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 Balance is not about dividing your sixteen waking hours four ways and giving each part of your life a certain amount of time. It is, rather, responding to what is in front of you, tending to “the next indicated thing.” This kind of balance is more like the ballerina’s than the juggler’s. It’s staying in that lovely state of poise and equilibrium, giving full attention to the task at hand, whether it’s a hike or a yoga pose, writing a report for work or reading somebody special a bedtime story just one more time.<\/p>\n
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