{"id":208,"date":"2009-10-10T20:49:05","date_gmt":"2009-10-10T20:49:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/yourcharmedlife\/2009\/10\/30-days-to-a-charmed-life-day-1.html"},"modified":"2009-10-10T20:49:05","modified_gmt":"2009-10-10T20:49:05","slug":"30-days-to-a-charmed-life-day-1","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/yourcharmedlife\/2009\/10\/30-days-to-a-charmed-life-day-1.html","title":{"rendered":"30 days to a charmed life &#8212; Day 1: Ascertain your advantages"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My husband left this morning to visit his mother in Kansas for a month. I decided to take these 30 days, live as magically as I know how, and coach you on how to do more of the same along the way. We&#8217;re all different; our circumstances are as varied as can be. And yet, we can all craft remarkable days and lives within those circumstances.<\/p>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Here&#8217;s your assignment: Make a list of your advantages. We always see other people&#8217;s advantages: this one&#8217;s rich, this one&#8217;s gorgeous, this one&#8217;s brilliant, that one&#8217;s all of the above. Good for them. Now, stand outside your life and look at your own advantages. In looking at mine for 30 days of super-charmed living (and hopefully creating a more comfortable and beautiful home for William when he gets back), here are some advantages I have:<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>(1) I&#8217;ve been at this awhile<\/div>\n<div>(2) I have a flexible schedule<\/div>\n<div>(3) I live in a magnificent city<\/div>\n<div>(4) I know some amazing people<\/div>\n<div>(5) I know how to find things &#8212; services, bargains, whatever is necessary<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Make your own list. You don&#8217;t have to stop at five. You can have fifty if you want.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"an edu.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/an%20edu.jpg\" width=\"84\" height=\"124\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"float: left;margin: 0 20px 20px 0\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<div>So here&#8217;s my report on my charming day. It actually started twenty-four hours ago when William and I had a lovely evening together before his trip. We saw two movies, <i>An Education<\/i>&nbsp;(I loved it: it took me back to when I was very young, lived in London, and fell for an older man), and <i>A Serious&nbsp;<\/i><\/div>\n<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"a serious.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/133\/import\/a%20serious.jpg\" width=\"83\" height=\"123\" class=\"mt-image-right\" style=\"float: right;margin: 0 0 20px 20px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<div><i>Man, <\/i>a Coen Brothers&#8217; modern retelling of the story of Job. In it, a sweet, sweet man goes through every kind of trial and tries to find answers within his Jewish faith. It&#8217;s touching and funny and wonderful. I was at the concession stand to get a refill of hot water for my herbal tea and a lady in her 70s who was also standing there said, &#8220;I&#8217;m so proud of you for going to two movies: I&#8217;ve always wanted to do that.&#8221; Afterwards, we stopped in an Irish pub at the very moment the Yankees won a playoff game in extra innings. It was pretty sweet.<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>Today, the official Day 1, I spent in a food prep class at the Natural Gourmet Institute. Jennifer Cornbleet, author of two of my favorite recipe books, <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Raw-Food-Made-Easy-People\/dp\/1570671753\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1255224371&amp;sr=8-1\">Raw Food Made Easy for 1 or 2 People<\/a><\/i>&nbsp;and <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Raw-Dessert-Easy-Delights-Everyone\/dp\/1570672369\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1255224450&amp;sr=1-1\">Raw for Dessert<\/a>: Easy Delights for Everyone. <\/i>We made green juice, a green smoothie, raw granola, zucchini&nbsp;&#8220;pasta&#8221; and marinara sauce, marinated kale, vegetarian sushi (that was really fun: I&#8217;d never made sushi before), and the most amazing chocolate tart with a mousse filling made creamy with avocado &#8212; who&#8217;d have thought? (All these recipes are in <i><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Raw-Food-Made-Easy-People\/dp\/1570671753\/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1255224371&amp;sr=8-1\">Raw Food Made Easy&#8230;<\/a><\/i>).<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>My lovely friend, Maggie, was there and we traded girl talk. Then I came home and started the warm-season to cold-season clothing switch. Now I&#8217;m resting and writing to you and feeling very excited about the next 29 days. Wanna join me? Let me know some of your advantages and what you&#8217;re going to do with them. On Monday, we&#8217;ll talk about some the basic practices that are simple and free and pretty much required to living a charmed life every day.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Life coach and Creating a Charmed Life author Victoria Moran embarks on a 30-day experiment in super-charmed living and brings readers of her blog along.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":177,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-208","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-charmed-life-chronicles"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>30 days to a charmed life - Day 1: Ascertain your advantages - Your Charmed Life<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, 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