{"id":171,"date":"2009-09-17T21:35:05","date_gmt":"2009-09-17T21:35:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/yourcharmedlife\/2009\/09\/mastering-the-up-spin.html"},"modified":"2009-09-17T21:35:05","modified_gmt":"2009-09-17T21:35:05","slug":"mastering-the-up-spin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/yourcharmedlife\/2009\/09\/mastering-the-up-spin.html","title":{"rendered":"Mastering the Up-Spin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--StartFragment--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align:justify;line-height:200%\"><font size=\"6\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: 19px\"><b><br \/>\n<!--StartFragment--><br \/>\n<\/b><\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"6\"><b><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align:justify;line-height:200%\"><b><br \/>\n<!--StartFragment--><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p><b><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align:justify;line-height:200%\"><font size=\"3\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: 13px\"><br \/>\n<!--StartFragment--><br \/>\n<\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p><font size=\"3\"><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align:justify;line-height:200%\"><i>An excerpt from <\/i><a href=\"http:\/\/http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Younger-Day-Rejuvenate-Revitalize-Spirit\/dp\/006081618X\/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&amp;s=books&amp;qid=1251683027&amp;sr=8-3\">Younger by the Day: 365 Ways to Rejuvenate Your Body &amp; Revitalize Your Spirit<\/a>, by Victoria Moran<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>Politicians<br \/>\nand PR people spin everything. The movie star who was &#8220;resting&#8221; may&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"younger cover.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/133\/import\/younger%20cover.jpg\" width=\"79\" height=\"137\" class=\"mt-image-right\" style=\"float: right;margin: 0 0 20px 20px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\">have been<br \/>\nresting in rehab; the one who was &#8220;spending more time at home&#8221; might have been<br \/>\nunable to get work. Such people hire professionals to find something positive<br \/>\nin their situation and turn it into a press release. Our job is to find the<br \/>\npositive in every situation and focus on that. What you focus on becomes more<br \/>\npronounced. When you zero in on the positive, that&#8217;s what you see and that&#8217;s<br \/>\nwhere you live.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; <\/span>Practice<br \/>\npositivism as life dishes up its specials of the day. For example:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Level1\" style=\"margin-left:.5in;text-align:justify;text-indent:-.25in;line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Symbol\">\u00b7<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\">It&#8217;s raining again:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align:justify;line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><span> <\/span><span> <\/span><i>&#8220;Terrific&#8211;I wasn&#8217;t in the mood to mow the<br \/>\nlawn.&#8221;<\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"a\" style=\"margin-left:.5in;text-align:justify;text-indent:-.25in;line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Symbol\">\u00b7<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\">There&#8217;s not enough money<br \/>\nfor a summer trip:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align:justify;line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><span> <\/span><span> <\/span><i>&#8220;Let&#8217;s take a vacation at home. Then we<br \/>\nwon&#8217;t need another one to recover.&#8221; <\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"a\" style=\"margin-left:.5in;text-align:justify;text-indent:-.25in;line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Symbol\">\u00b7<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\">You didn&#8217;t get the<br \/>\nraise\/promotion\/job\/prize\/distinction\/guy:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align:justify;line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><span> <\/span><span> <\/span><i>&#8220;This one just wasn&#8217;t mine to have; the next<br \/>\none has my name all over it.&#8221;<\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"Level1\" style=\"margin-left:.5in;text-align:justify;text-indent:-.25in;line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Symbol\">\u00b7<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\">You did something you<br \/>\ninterpret as &#8220;stupid&#8221;:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align:justify;line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><span> <\/span><span> <\/span><i>&#8220;Welcome to the human race.&#8221;<\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"a\" style=\"margin-left:.5in;text-align:justify;text-indent:-.25in;line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt;font-family:Symbol\">\u00b7<span>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<br \/>\n<\/span><\/span><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\">You discover some sign<br \/>\nof aging on your face or body:<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align:justify;line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><span> <\/span><span> <\/span><i>&#8220;I&#8217;m really something to have come this far.&#8221;<\/i><\/span><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align:justify;line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><span> <\/span>You get the<br \/>\npoint. The more you do this, the more instinctive it becomes. At first, you may<br \/>\nthink that this much positivism is saccharine-sweet and not respectful of the<br \/>\nrealistic, fact-facing person that you are. So be it. We have the option of<br \/>\nliving in a world of hard, cold facts, or lush, evolving possibilities. It&#8217;s no<br \/>\naccident that &#8220;possibility&#8221; and &#8220;positive&#8221; share a root: the former depends on<br \/>\nthe latter for its growth and blossoming.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align:justify;line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><span> <\/span>Play with this.<br \/>\nPeople will not treat you less seriously because you refuse to share a worldview<br \/>\nwith the grim reaper. In fact, because negativism is so prevalent, other<br \/>\npositive people will sense a kindred spirit and beat a path your door. Good<br \/>\n&#8220;luck,&#8221; coveted outcomes, and your share of happily-ever-aftering will come<br \/>\nalong, too. There is a spiritual law that states: &#8220;Like attracts like.&#8221; Be a<br \/>\nmagnet for the best life has to offer.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align:justify;line-height:200%\"><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><b><i>Affirmation:<\/i><\/b><\/span><span style=\"font-size:10.0pt\"><i> I live in a world of lush, evolving possibilities.<\/i><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align:justify;line-height:200%\"><font size=\"3\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: 13px\"><i><b>New Yorkers: <\/b>Victoria will be part of a healthy-living workshop this Sunday, Sept. 20, 11 a.m. to 3 p.m., at Atmananda Yoga. The other presenter is Michael Gregor, MD, a nutritional biochemist who turns the latest nutritional findings into a fun quiz-show-formatted lecture. It&#8217;s really great &#8212; <a href=\"https:\/\/mail.google.com\/mail\/?zx=kdbfibiwy2mx&amp;shva=1#inbox\/123c9c6306aa356e\">here&#8217;s the link<\/a>.<\/i><\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\" style=\"text-align:justify;line-height:200%\"><font size=\"3\"><span class=\"Apple-style-span\" style=\"font-size: 13px\"><b><i><br \/><\/i><\/b><\/span><\/font><\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><br \/>\n<\/font><\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><br \/>\n<\/b><\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><br \/>\n<\/b><\/font><\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>If the politicians and PR people can spin things to suit them, you can certainly spin things to the upbeat, the positive side. 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