{"id":167,"date":"2009-08-28T13:34:22","date_gmt":"2009-08-28T13:34:22","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/yourcharmedlife\/2009\/08\/prosperity-and-living-a-charmed-life.html"},"modified":"2009-08-28T13:34:22","modified_gmt":"2009-08-28T13:34:22","slug":"prosperity-and-living-a-charmed-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/yourcharmedlife\/2009\/08\/prosperity-and-living-a-charmed-life.html","title":{"rendered":"Prosperity &#8212; and living a charmed life"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><!--StartFragment--><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">I got a comment recently from a reader who said she felt I<br \/>\nwas &#8220;out of touch with the common<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"red carpet.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/133\/import\/red%20carpet.jpg\" width=\"160\" height=\"240\" class=\"mt-image-right\" style=\"float: right;margin: 0 0 20px 20px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">&nbsp;people.&#8221; That seemed so strange to me, since<br \/>\nI <i>am<\/i><span style=\"font-style:normal\"> one of the common people. True, now<br \/>\nthat William and I are in our 50s and our children are grown, we are doing well<br \/>\nfinancially. That &#8220;doing well,&#8221; however, means that William puts in long hours<br \/>\nsix days a week; and I&#8217;m constantly looking for ways to stay afloat as<br \/>\njournalism languishes and making a living as a writer and speaker becomes<br \/>\nincreasingly challenging. Even so, I know how lucky we are; but I can only<br \/>\nfantasize what it would be like to be as privileged as I may sometimes appear.&nbsp;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Here&#8217;s part of what I think is going on: Back in the 80s<br \/>\nwhen I was a single mom and really poor, I learned from wonderful mentors and<br \/>\nteachers how to live well on not much (you can read about this &#8220;living richly&#8221;<br \/>\nin my<a href=\"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/yourcharmedlife\/2009\/02\/victorias-victorious-bailout-plan.html\"> &#8220;Victoria&#8217;s Victorious Bailout Plan&#8221;<\/a> post from February 2, 2009). These<br \/>\npeople taught me how to put forth an aura of abundance. I still use those<br \/>\nprinciples, and evidently I have more of an &#8220;aura of abundance&#8221; than I thought.<\/p>\n<p><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">The other aspect is this: I blog about what I do, not what I<br \/>\ndon&#8217;t do. You guys know that I buy heirloom tomatoes at the farmers&#8217; market and<br \/>\norganic arugula at my favorite local health food store, but there&#8217;s a lot that<br \/>\nI don&#8217;t buy&#8212;meat, cheese, coffee, packaged foods, convenience foods. Leaving<br \/>\nthose off the grocery list saves a lot of money that I get to use in the<br \/>\nproduce department.&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">\n<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"limo.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/133\/import\/limo.jpg\" width=\"240\" height=\"137\" class=\"mt-image-left\" style=\"float: left;margin: 0 20px 20px 0\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">Like many New Yorkers, William and I get around without an<br \/>\nautomobile; we&#8217;re blessed with excellent public transportation and a love of<br \/>\nwalking. Other than for my bio-identical hormones, we&#8217;re not spending anything<br \/>\non prescription (or non-prescription) drugs. (We do pay for health insurance,<br \/>\nhowever, since we lost ours when William was laid off in 2004.) We live (and<br \/>\nhave our two offices, now that we&#8217;re both self-employed) in a two-bedroom<br \/>\napartment in one of Manhattan&#8217;s least expensive neighborhoods. It&#8217;s lovely, but<br \/>\nnot lavish. Neither one of us shops much (every time I do, it&#8217;s<\/p>\n<p><span class=\"mt-enclosure mt-enclosure-image\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"formal gowns.jpg\" src=\"https:\/\/wp-media.beliefnet.com\/sites\/133\/import\/formal%20gowns.jpg\" width=\"240\" height=\"180\" class=\"mt-image-right\" style=\"float: right;margin: 0 0 20px 20px\" \/><\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">&nbsp;enough of an adventure<br \/>\nthat I tell you about it), and aside from our mortgage, we don&#8217;t owe anybody a<br \/>\ncent: no revolving credit, no debt, no interest.<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">It is true: a very nice slice of the American Dream is<br \/>\nhappening in my life and my family&#8217;s. But we have to make choices like<br \/>\neverybody else. So tell me: what do you do to feel prosperous the way things<br \/>\nare right now, and what do you do to make frugality as classy as it can be?<\/p>\n<p class=\"MsoNormal\">&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><!--EndFragment--><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Victoria Moran ponders the cost of a charmed life and shares specifics about how she lives (and what she doesn&#8217;t buy so she can afford organic vegetables).<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":177,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-167","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-delights-abounding"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Prosperity - and living a charmed life - Your Charmed Life<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, 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