{"id":1226,"date":"2014-11-24T13:23:58","date_gmt":"2014-11-24T18:23:58","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/yourbestlifenow\/?p=1226"},"modified":"2014-11-26T06:54:53","modified_gmt":"2014-11-26T11:54:53","slug":"the-problem-with-faith","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/yourbestlifenow\/2014\/11\/the-problem-with-faith.html","title":{"rendered":"The Problem with Faith"},"content":{"rendered":"
\"The<\/a>
The Problem with Faith<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

The Problem with Faith<\/h2>\n

I wish it were easier. It is not, however.<\/p>\n

In many ways, my spiritual walk was easier when it was not so complicated by faith. When I could reduce it to a catalogue of beliefs, which I did most of my religious life, it was infinitely easer than actually having to live by faith. When I could just carry around a list of things in my head I was supposed to believe, the way my wife carries around a daily list of things she wants to do, my life was a hell-of-a-lot simpler.<\/p>\n

It was only after I became aware that the things you believe don\u2019t mean squat if the way you live isn\u2019t a moment by moment trust in the Divine.<\/p>\n

That’s what it means to live by faith. And, when you live by faith, it does not matter whether you’re a Christian, Jew, Muslim, Buddhist or nothing at all. You are spiritual and, no matter what inside you rails against such a notion, the fact is, that is the truth.<\/p>\n

I am a Christian by virtue of my upbringing. If you are, the likelihood is, it is the same for you. You are not a Christian because you have carefully and open-mindedly searched even the major religions of the world and concluded Christianity makes more sense than all the others. No, if you are honest, and much of the Christian world is not, you will have to admit, you were raised in a church somewhere in America and, at some point, you made some kind of decision to believe in some kind of God…the God your religion believed in…plus Jesus, of course…and then, you took whatever actions your Christian tradition dictated you needed to take in order to declare to the world you were a Christian.<\/p>\n

What is ultimately more important, however, is that you be a person of faith. Not just a person who believes a bunch of stuff somebody said you had to believe or you’d go to hell.
\nOr, smell like you did, anyway.<\/p>\n

Faith is Hard Work<\/h2>\n

And, that is what makes all of this faith stuff so difficult.<\/p>\n

I wish it were easier. I really do. But faith is hard. Beliefs, on the other hand, are easy. Which I think is the main reason why some religious people resist, even revile, the stuff I write about. It is easier for them to call me a heretic or, worse, a defector from the faith than to ever intelligently think about what I’m trying to say.<\/p>\n

They want faith instead to be reduced to a \u201cWhat We Believe\u201d class.<\/p>\n

They don\u2019t want struggle; they want simplicity.
\nThey don\u2019t want questions; they want answers.
\nThey don\u2019t want faith; they want beliefs.
\nThey don\u2019t want diversity of beliefs; they want uniformity of beliefs.
\nThey don\u2019t want interfaith; they want one faith.
\nThey don’t want many religions; they want one religion.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

And, depending on which religion they were raised to believe in, then of course, that religion is the one they want. After all, it’s the one that is “right.”<\/p>\n

Here is what I\u2019ve observed about religions, however.<\/p>\n

1. There is not one single religion that works for everyone.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Christians and Muslims would do well to remember this because, if there is one thing both those religions teach, it is the conversion of everyone to their belief system.<\/p>\n

Wave a Bible in the face of unbelievers, or threaten them with eternal hell, and some Christians mistakenly think that should be enough to bring everyone to repentance and conversion.<\/p>\n

Muslims make an equal mistake. Man of them mistakenly think all they should have to do is wave an AK-47 in the face of unbelievers, or threaten them with beheading, and they, too, will convert.<\/p>\n

Neither will work and both religions are wrong.<\/p>\n

There will never be just one religion. I am not sure about many things. But, of this, I am certain.<\/p>\n

And, here\u2019s why.<\/p>\n

2. Religions by nature divide.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n

Which is the irony, since the word \u201creligion\u201d means \u201cto bind together.\u201d And, there is a sense in which religions do. At least, initially and, when they do, it is always very personal. But, over time, what at first unites people will ultimately divide them.<\/p>\n

Put two religious people in the same room and you will soon have three religions.<\/p>\n

Here’s the point I am trying to make.<\/p>\n

You can settle for your religion, if you wish.
\nYou can be content to live out the beliefs of your religion.
\nYou can right me off, as some others have done, as some “former believer.”
\nIf that makes all of this easier for you to swallow, then have at it.
\nBut, if you wish to live a spiritual life, regardless of the religious garment you drape around it (or, lack of a religious garment), you will have to get beyond your beliefs. Beliefs are no more faith than coffee beans are a cup of hot brew. Knowing the difference is the difference between living a religious life and living a life of faith.<\/p>\n

Spiritual people…people of faith…have recognized…
\nBeliefs may be part of faith, but believing is living by faith – that’s what’s hard.
\nThey know they’re going to have more questions than they have answers…
\nMore doubts than they have securities…
\nMore struggles than they have days of bliss and peace.
\nThey know that being spiritual does not mean they become more divine; it means they are becoming more human.<\/p>\n

And, just in case you need reminding, to be human means…<\/p>\n

To know hurt as well as happiness;
\nTo know despair,too,
\nBut despair that is seasoned like a pot of stew on a cold day with just the right amount of hope.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

It means, my dear friend, life for you is lived with God…
\nIt is not a life lived \u201cfor\u201d God.<\/p>\n

There is a difference.<\/p>\n

The former is a life of faith.
\nThe latter? Well, it\u2019s a life lived with beliefs. And, when your faith is all about \u201cright\u201d beliefs and the “right” religion, you go through life arguing and defending what deep down you know is as empty as the arguments you are making for it.<\/p>\n

Live well, instead. Live by faith. Oh sure, it’s hard. It’s damn hard. But, for me, it’s the difference between being human…and…being anything but.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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