{"id":751,"date":"2018-08-21T13:41:54","date_gmt":"2018-08-21T13:41:54","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/?p=751"},"modified":"2018-08-21T13:41:54","modified_gmt":"2018-08-21T13:41:54","slug":"who-what-where","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/2018\/08\/who-what-where.html","title":{"rendered":"Who, What, Where"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>You must consistently ask yourself these questions?<\/p>\n<p>Who am I around?<\/p>\n<p>What are they doing to me?<\/p>\n<p>Where have they got me going?<\/p>\n<p>What do they have me saying?<\/p>\n<p>What do they have me thinking?<\/p>\n<p>And most importantly what am I becoming?<\/p>\n<p>Then ask yourself&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Is this okay?<\/p>\n<p>Are they making my life better or keeping me down?<\/p>\n<p>Your life does not get better by chance, it gets better by change.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>You must consistently ask yourself these questions? Who am I around? What are they doing to me? Where have they got me going? What do they have me saying? What do they have me thinking? And most importantly what am I becoming? Then ask yourself&#8230; Is this okay? Are they making my life better or&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":594,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-751","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v23.9 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>Who, What, Where - You Can Sit With Us<\/title>\n<meta name=\"robots\" content=\"index, follow, max-snippet:-1, max-image-preview:large, max-video-preview:-1\" \/>\n<link rel=\"canonical\" href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/2018\/08\/who-what-where.html\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:locale\" content=\"en_US\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:type\" content=\"article\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:title\" content=\"Who, What, Where - You Can Sit With Us\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:description\" content=\"You must consistently ask yourself these questions? Who am I around? What are they doing to me? Where have they got me going? What do they have me saying? What do they have me thinking? And most importantly what am I becoming? Then ask yourself&#8230; Is this okay? Are they making my life better or&hellip;\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:url\" content=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/2018\/08\/who-what-where.html\" \/>\n<meta property=\"og:site_name\" content=\"You Can Sit With Us\" \/>\n<meta property=\"article:published_time\" content=\"2018-08-21T13:41:54+00:00\" \/>\n<meta name=\"author\" content=\"sstoddard\" \/>\n<meta name=\"twitter:card\" content=\"summary_large_image\" \/>\n<!-- \/ Yoast SEO plugin. -->","yoast_head_json":{"title":"Who, What, Where - You Can Sit With Us","robots":{"index":"index","follow":"follow","max-snippet":"max-snippet:-1","max-image-preview":"max-image-preview:large","max-video-preview":"max-video-preview:-1"},"canonical":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/2018\/08\/who-what-where.html","og_locale":"en_US","og_type":"article","og_title":"Who, What, Where - You Can Sit With Us","og_description":"You must consistently ask yourself these questions? Who am I around? What are they doing to me? Where have they got me going? What do they have me saying? What do they have me thinking? And most importantly what am I becoming? Then ask yourself&#8230; Is this okay? Are they making my life better or&hellip;","og_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/2018\/08\/who-what-where.html","og_site_name":"You Can Sit With Us","article_published_time":"2018-08-21T13:41:54+00:00","author":"sstoddard","twitter_card":"summary_large_image","schema":{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org","@graph":[{"@type":"WebPage","@id":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/2018\/08\/who-what-where.html","url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/2018\/08\/who-what-where.html","name":"Who, What, Where - You Can Sit With Us","isPartOf":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/#website"},"datePublished":"2018-08-21T13:41:54+00:00","dateModified":"2018-08-21T13:41:54+00:00","author":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/#\/schema\/person\/456f131c2db57f2b40f018648fec06b2"},"breadcrumb":{"@id":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/2018\/08\/who-what-where.html#breadcrumb"},"inLanguage":"en-US","potentialAction":[{"@type":"ReadAction","target":["https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/2018\/08\/who-what-where.html"]}]},{"@type":"BreadcrumbList","@id":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/2018\/08\/who-what-where.html#breadcrumb","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Home","item":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Who, What, Where"}]},{"@type":"WebSite","@id":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/#website","url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/","name":"You Can Sit With Us","description":"Beliefnet Voices - Shannon Stoddard","potentialAction":[{"@type":"SearchAction","target":{"@type":"EntryPoint","urlTemplate":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/?s={search_term_string}"},"query-input":{"@type":"PropertyValueSpecification","valueRequired":true,"valueName":"search_term_string"}}],"inLanguage":"en-US"},{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/#\/schema\/person\/456f131c2db57f2b40f018648fec06b2","name":"sstoddard","description":"Shannon Stoddard is a mother, writer, author. She writes suspense ( psychological) fiction. She is a member of the American Writers &amp; Artists, Inc. and is an advocate for women facing any type of oppression. Her background is marketing but she also holds a degree in psychology. Shannon will be delving into topics that speak to the heart of women. Check out her website, Settle Down Soul.","sameAs":["http:\/\/www.settledownsoul.com"],"url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/author\/sstoddard"}]}},"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/751","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/594"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=751"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/751\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":753,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/751\/revisions\/753"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=751"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=751"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=751"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}