{"version":"1.0","provider_name":"You Can Sit With Us","provider_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus","author_name":"sstoddard","author_url":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/author\/sstoddard","title":"Go Easy - You Can Sit With Us","type":"rich","width":600,"height":338,"html":"<blockquote class=\"wp-embedded-content\" data-secret=\"TQFi3yBhKE\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/2019\/03\/go-easy.html\">Go Easy<\/a><\/blockquote><iframe sandbox=\"allow-scripts\" security=\"restricted\" src=\"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/youcansitwithus\/2019\/03\/go-easy.html\/embed#?secret=TQFi3yBhKE\" width=\"600\" height=\"338\" title=\"&#8220;Go Easy&#8221; &#8212; You Can Sit With Us\" data-secret=\"TQFi3yBhKE\" frameborder=\"0\" marginwidth=\"0\" marginheight=\"0\" scrolling=\"no\" class=\"wp-embedded-content\"><\/iframe><script type=\"text\/javascript\">\n\/* <![CDATA[ *\/\n\/*! This file is auto-generated *\/\n!function(d,l){\"use strict\";l.querySelector&&d.addEventListener&&\"undefined\"!=typeof URL&&(d.wp=d.wp||{},d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage||(d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage=function(e){var t=e.data;if((t||t.secret||t.message||t.value)&&!\/[^a-zA-Z0-9]\/.test(t.secret)){for(var s,r,n,a=l.querySelectorAll('iframe[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),o=l.querySelectorAll('blockquote[data-secret=\"'+t.secret+'\"]'),c=new RegExp(\"^https?:$\",\"i\"),i=0;i<o.length;i++)o[i].style.display=\"none\";for(i=0;i<a.length;i++)s=a[i],e.source===s.contentWindow&&(s.removeAttribute(\"style\"),\"height\"===t.message?(1e3<(r=parseInt(t.value,10))?r=1e3:~~r<200&&(r=200),s.height=r):\"link\"===t.message&&(r=new URL(s.getAttribute(\"src\")),n=new URL(t.value),c.test(n.protocol))&&n.host===r.host&&l.activeElement===s&&(d.top.location.href=t.value))}},d.addEventListener(\"message\",d.wp.receiveEmbedMessage,!1),l.addEventListener(\"DOMContentLoaded\",function(){for(var e,t,s=l.querySelectorAll(\"iframe.wp-embedded-content\"),r=0;r<s.length;r++)(t=(e=s[r]).getAttribute(\"data-secret\"))||(t=Math.random().toString(36).substring(2,12),e.src+=\"#?secret=\"+t,e.setAttribute(\"data-secret\",t)),e.contentWindow.postMessage({message:\"ready\",secret:t},\"*\")},!1)))}(window,document);\n\/* ]]> *\/\n<\/script>\n","description":"&nbsp; The day my father died, I was at the grocery store buying bananas. I remember thinking to myself, \u201cThis is insane. Your dad just died. Why the hell are you buying bananas?\u201d But we needed bananas. We\u2019d be waking up for breakfast tomorrow morning, and there wouldn\u2019t be any bananas\u2014so there I was. And&hellip;","thumbnail_url":"https:\/\/johnpavlovitz.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/CryingCar.jpg"}