{"id":463,"date":"2010-03-22T10:49:05","date_gmt":"2010-03-22T10:49:05","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/windowsanddoors\/2010\/03\/how-young-is-too-young-to-get.html"},"modified":"2010-03-22T10:49:05","modified_gmt":"2010-03-22T10:49:05","slug":"how-young-is-too-young-to-get","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/windowsanddoors\/2010\/03\/how-young-is-too-young-to-get.html","title":{"rendered":"How Young Is Too Young To Get Married?"},"content":{"rendered":"

A trend that was until recently limited to the Hasidic world, is emerging in other parts of the Jewish community. It involves the age at which people are getting married. And it translates into kids (yes, i know thta’s my bias showing) marrying younger and younger.
\nAs recent coverage in Haaretz indicates, 17 and 18 is increasingly normal <\/a>among a widening segment of the population. Personal experience tells me that the trend is not only limited to the so-called “hill top youth” moving into illegal settlements. The trend includes college-bound 18 and 19 year olds marrying while in school and\/or the army. the point is, this is not just the “fringe”.
\nBut are they right? Are they too young to make this decision or are they simply ready earlier than their parents were to do so? Could it be that they think they are ready to make such a significant decison because they live in a culture in which personal decision making is increasingly undervalued and so for them, it’s not such a “big deal” — you more or less marry who is a “good match” and as long as they are “appropriate”, it doesn’t really matter.
\nHow much of this is related to needing an acceptable framework in which to express their sexual desires?
\nHow do we decide when it’s time to get married? when is young, too young?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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