{"id":7602,"date":"2011-09-19T18:00:43","date_gmt":"2011-09-19T22:00:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/watchwomanonthewall\/?p=7602"},"modified":"2011-09-19T18:00:43","modified_gmt":"2011-09-19T22:00:43","slug":"ungodly-advice-comes-from-dear-abby-to-unmarried-pregnant-woman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/watchwomanonthewall\/2011\/09\/ungodly-advice-comes-from-dear-abby-to-unmarried-pregnant-woman.html","title":{"rendered":"Ungodly Advice Comes from Dear Abby to Unmarried Pregnant Woman"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"\"DEAR ABBY<\/strong>: I\u2019m “eight months pregnant with my first’ child. It is my boyfriend’s third child. I don’t get along with the other children’s mothers, but I want my son to have a relationship with his brother and sister. How do I go about getting this to happen? \u00a0– <\/strong>HOPEFUL IN <\/strong>ARKANSAS<\/strong><\/p>\n

DEAR HOPEFUL: <\/strong>I applaud you for wanting your son to have a relationship with his half-siblings. Family is important, and when the children are older, it could be beneficial for them. \u00a0A way to establish a kinship with the other mothers might be to remind them that, in a sense, you’re all members of the same “club.”\u00a0 Considering their former boyfriend’s history, membership may continue to expand, so it’s in everyone’s interest to stick together.<\/p>\n

Source: The News-Herald, Lake County, Ohio —- Saturday, September 17, 2011 \u2013 Page B1<\/em><\/p>\n

<\/em>Watchwoman<\/strong><\/span>: This letter from “Hopeful in Arkansas” and Abby’s answer\u00a0disturbed\u00a0me so greatly that I am beside myself with such intense emotions, I can barely speak! \u00a0Not one of these emotions is supportive of Abby’s inadequate reply. \u00a0 \u00a0Abby offers no advice for the young mother’s choice of “boyfriends.” \u00a0No advice of the order of society of courtship rules that agree with God’s Worldview! \u00a0Using God’s Rules: \u00a0Boys and girls meet, get to know one another, establish a relationship by dating, go steady, get engaged, \u00a0then get married and sometime AFTER that, establish a family. \u00a0 What Abby supports is exactly what keeps the ghetto and welfare state prospering under today’s Johnson’s Great Society of Poverty. It is why guns rule the inner city instead of God’s Laws with men being the head of their family and loving his wife like Christ loves His Church! \u00a0First, why would any woman with any intelligence and discernment ever “date” or “hook-up” with a “boyfriend” who has two other children with women he evidently never bothered to marry? \u00a0 What is wrong with this pregnant woman? \u00a0Where is her morals? \u00a0Where is her self-confidence? \u00a0Where is her relationship with God? \u00a0Apparently none of those things exist! \u00a0If family is\u00a0distinguished\u00a0by this eight-month\u00a0pregnant\u00a0woman’s worldview and Abby’a post-God, post-modern, post Ten Commandments, post-religious worldview, to be designated as three single woman who have nothing more in common than having allowed the same creep deposit bodily fluids in their bodies, may God help America because we are in much more serious trouble than figuring out how to keep a third bastard child in touch with her bastard half brother and bastard half sister. \u00a0[Now don’t get all bent out of shape by the word bastard. It is used in the King James Bible.] \u00a0This Abby response makes me see such intense red-hot anger that I can barely\u00a0focus\u00a0on\u00a0writing\u00a0an intelligent response. Abby never even asks these questions: \u00a0(1.) How old is the eight-month pregnant woman? (2.) How old is the feral pig who\u00a0impregnated\u00a0her? (3.) How does she and this creep plan to support the child? \u00a0(4.) Is he supporting his other children? \u00a0(5.) Abby assumes the irresponsible father will repeat his\u00a0mendacious\u00a0behavior with other women, but never addresses the consequences that will eventually propose for the children he has already fathered. \u00a0(6.) \u00a0Is he a member of the NBA — because it sounds exactly like the majority of feral basketball players who have sex like animals in the wild with feral females also in the wild. \u00a0(FYI, #6 is not for serious questioning, but just one of my angry thoughts expressed.) \u00a0This self-centered fool obviously doesn’t give a hoot for this eight-moth pregnant woman or else he’d be willing to marry her and provide a home, support and\u00a0pledge\u00a0his life-long fidelity to her. \u00a0(7.) Where is her father and mother? Where is her family? \u00a0(8.) Where is her church support? Evidently she doesn’t belong to a church since she’s writing to a godless, ignorant,\u00a0nincompoop\u00a0like Abby for advice! \u00a0We, in the USA wonder why daily almost in Cleveland and every other huge city in America, where poverty prevails and guns and ruthless feral gangs rule the block, why government programs have never solved their problems. \u00a0It’s because\u00a0money\u00a0is not their problem, lack of being taught to obey God’s Rules for self-control and\u00a0responsibility\u00a0is what is lacking! \u00a0Instead of throwing money at lunacy and\u00a0irresponsibility, share the Gospel of Jesus Christ with them. \u00a0Then teach them to obey God’s Laws! \u00a0It is called “The Great Commission” and Jesus Christ said it must<\/span>\u00a0be carried out by every one of His Disciples until He comes again! \u00a0The government is as blind as Abby and both are leading the ignorant and blind into another pitfall from which they will continually be stuck inside, sunk in the miry clay,\u00a0until\u00a0the Truth of Jesus Christ finds them and leads then out of their desperate situations with Moral Behavior that God’s Law-Word demands! \u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n

\"\"The Great Commission: King James Bible \u00a0–\u00a0Matthew 28:18-20 \u00a0<\/strong>And Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth. \u00a019 \u00a0Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost: \u00a020 \u00a0Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen.<\/p>\n

Matthew 15:14 –<\/strong>\u00a0 …they be blind leaders of the blind. And if the blind lead the blind, both shall fall into the ditch.<\/p>\n

Luke 6:39 –<\/strong>\u00a0 … Can the blind lead the blind? shall they not both fall into the ditch?<\/p>\n

\u25ac \u00a0Donna Calvin<\/strong><\/span><\/pre>\n
See related Watchwoman posts:<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n
* Feral Children \u2013 Years of liberal dogma have spawned a generation of amoral, uneducated, welfare dependent, brutalised youngsters\u00a0– posted Thursday August 11, 2011
\n<\/strong>Click here \u25ac>\u00a0http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/watchwomanonthewall\/2011\/08\/feral-children-years-of-liberal-dogma-have-spawned-a-generation-of-amoral-uneducated-welfare-dependent-brutalised-youngsters.html#ixzz1UqdORaw0<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n
* <\/strong>Click here \u25ac><\/strong><\/span> \u00a0“Inspirational. Do you know for sure?” posted on Tuesday July 26, 2011 located at\u00a0http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/watchwomanonthewall\/?p=4928<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n
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*\u00a0THE 45 COMMUNIST GOALS AS READ INTO THE CONGRESSIONAL RECORD, 1963<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>posted \u00a0Friday April 29, 2011<\/strong>
\n<\/span>Click here \u25ac><\/strong><\/span>\u00a0http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/watchwomanonthewall\/2011\/04\/the-45-communist-goals-as-read-into-the-congressional-record-1963.html<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<\/div>\n
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*\u00a0LIST OF 10 PLANKS of the COMMUNIST MANIFESTO<\/a>\u00a0<\/strong>posted Monday July 11, 2011
\nClick here \u25ac><\/strong><\/span>\u00a0http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/watchwomanonthewall\/2011\/07\/list-of-10-planks-of-the-communist-manifesto.html<\/a><\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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