{"id":260,"date":"2007-04-05T23:36:00","date_gmt":"2007-04-05T23:36:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.beliefnet.com\/virtualtalmud\/2007\/04\/choosing-halakha.html"},"modified":"2007-04-05T23:36:00","modified_gmt":"2007-04-05T23:36:00","slug":"choosing-halakha","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/columnists\/virtualtalmud\/2007\/04\/choosing-halakha.html","title":{"rendered":"We Should Make &#8216;Choosing&#8217; the Focus"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/blogs\/virtualtalmud\/2007\/04\/does-god-really-care-if-we-eat-bread-on.html\">Rabbi Grossman asserts<\/a> that she does not eat bread on Passover because she &#8220;loves God.&#8221; Her metaphor pulls at my heart but it also pulls on my brain. Do we really believe that God asks us to practice <em>mitzvot<\/em> in the same way a lover asks us to take out the garbage? Is God that pathetic? Is God that sycophantic? I am moved by Rabbi Grossman&#8217;s claim that she observes <em>mitzvot<\/em> such as <em>chametz<\/em> because of her own emotional connection. I, too, think that an emotional and personal connection to <em>mitzvot<\/em> is important. But ultimately <em>mitzvot<\/em> are about creating a certain type of human being and being commanded demands that one be free to choose whether or not to observe the commandment. <em>Mitzvot<\/em> are not there to engender a masochistic personality but rather a freely-choosing spiritual being who decides to opt in or opt out. <em>Mitzvot<\/em> encourages us to make &#8220;choosing&#8221; the focus of our lives. As Maimonides&#8217; emphasis on free choice suggests: Jewish law is not about obedience as much as it is about cultivating a free choosing individual.<\/p>\n<p><b>Read the Full Debate: Does God Really Care If We Eat Bread on Passover?<\/b><\/p>\n<ul><\/p>\n<li><b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/blogs\/virtualtalmud\/2007\/04\/does-god-really-care-if-we-eat-bread-on.html\">Rabbi Grossman: &#8216;I Don&#8217;t Eat Bread Because I Love God<\/a>&#8216;<\/b><\/li>\n<p><\/p>\n<li><b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/blogs\/virtualtalmud\/2007\/04\/virtue-is-its-own-reward.html\">Rabbi Waxman: Virtue Is Its Own Reward<\/a><\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><b>Explore Beliefnet&#8217;s Complete Passover Features:<\/b><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/features\/passover.html\">The Beliefnet Guide to Passover<\/a><\/b><\/li>\n<p><\/p>\n<li><b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/story\/214\/story_21458_1.html\">Video: A Visit to a Matzah Factory<\/a><\/b><\/li>\n<p><\/p>\n<li><b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/section\/quiz\/index.asp?sectionID=10005&amp;surveyID=398\">Quiz: More Than &#8216;Four Questions&#8217; About Passover<\/a><\/b><\/li>\n<p><\/p>\n<li><b><a href=\"http:\/\/www.beliefnet.com\/features\/passoverrecipes.html\">Gallery: Your Favorite Passover Dessert Recipes<\/a><\/b><\/li>\n<p><\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Rabbi Grossman asserts that she does not eat bread on Passover because she &#8220;loves God.&#8221; Her metaphor pulls at my heart but it also pulls on my brain. 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